KK hey ppl am just xtremely new here ... but i heard about tha site and i had a "insident" tonite and i need help from ppl i dont know lol
K me and my boyfriend decided that it was time to have sex together for the first time tonight
To fill you in on the details .. he has already had sex before with his ex g/f and he sed he has only done it once with her and he regrets it
Anyway everything was goin ok .. so we decided to try and do it ... but wen he went to put his pennis inside me ... it would not go in .. he got slightly frustrated and pulled it out. His errection went away. We tried again and again ... we even got it in but i felt it too sore and he took it out! Then his errection went away for good!
So wot am askin is .. you why couldnt we get it in? Why did his errection keep goin away? And why was it even more painfull than i imagined?? COuld someone help me .... please!!!!
From a stressed 15 year old 
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Sat, 10/11/2003 - 22:41
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jenniferlopez, be smart, make sure your bf is wearing a lubricated condom.
I agree, spend sometime looking in the FIRST TIME section. There's lots of advice!
And, the bottom line is, FOREPLAY, LUBRICATION and PROTECTION!
Part of learning a good sex life is to know that sex, good sex, is NOT just about taking a penis inside you, or for u guys, putting your penis in a vagina!
From oral sex, to masturbation, getting "wet" is important for BOTh partners!
Read the "first time sex" postings - lots of great advice there
did you read all the posts from the "1st time and bleeding" section?? if not heres a link.
there are like 75 posts from kids just like you wondering some of the same things. since it was your first time yes you would be very tight and it would be difficult to get it in.
some girls have little pain their first time, others have extreme pain. its different for everyone.
as far as for your b/f i wouldn't worry about it. im sure he was nervous it being the first time w/ you and for you. he was probably stessing over hurting you and such.
also, since you were having troubles w/ penetration, thats a definte mood/erection killer. im sure w/ practice things will go much smoother.
did you guys do any foreplay such and him fingering you or anything? that would help loosen you up down there so its not so tight and gets all the juices flowing.
hope this helps