My boyfriend and I have been together for a while, and we have a healthy sex life, but the one issue that keeps coming up is that I make advances too often. I have a strong sex drive, and try my best to let him come to me, but i get impatient. It's not that he doesn't want to have sex, it's just that i think he feels i don't let him do the advancing... but are there any tips anyone could offer to help him come on to me a little more? things i could do to put in him the mood without being so obvious?
Please help!
Ok, so he wants to make the advances, but you're all ready on top of him and he doesn't like that he can't get a chance to initate?
Flirt with him, wear a certian out fit wear a scent he loves... most of all talk about your diferences in sex drive. Even though he has no issues having sex with you, your drive is much higher and that needs to be addressed so there is no issues later on you not feeling satisfied and fustrated.
Work it out so that if you're in a mood, you can wear a certian outfit, or make a comment that you both can use as a key word, for some nookie time and allow him time to come to you and seduce you. Men don't catch on very well ( sorry guys, it's true) so talking directly and telling him what is going on will do away with confusion and he won't mistaken your signals for wanting to go out for dinner tonight...