*sigh*

The term "cum" seems incorrect for this. There are two things happening:

1) an orgasm (usually)
2) female ejaculation

FE is (from what I understand) NOT any form of what we know as "Cum" in slang terms. It is closer in composition to urine, but it is NOT urine. It's primary component is urea (sp?) which is a CARRIER for all of the toxins and waste in urine, but it in-and-of-itself is just a harmless clear liquid that the body produces.

Upon the 'right' stimulation, some women release control of this urea (again, NOT urine) and it gets wrongly categorized as "cum". It does not come from the vaginal opening, but from the urethra.

If I understand correctly, it does NOT come from the bladder, but from whatever glands that produce the urea.

DISCLAIMER: I am by no-means an expert on the subject. I am just re-typing my understanding of all that I have read on the subject and have experienced.

As I've noted before, there are many factors to making a woman ejaculate. First of all... some women never will. Plain & simple. For some, it's a mental thing... they won't ALLOW themselves to or are ashamed. Some just think it's a feeling of having to "pee" and never vocalize the feeling and supress the urge to "release". Who knows WHY it affects some & not others? All I know is, I have gotten my last 3 partners (spanning almost 10-years) to do it.

Coincidence...? I dunno, but the last two; they never did until me. My current g/f - oops - FIANCÉ, now, (we got engaged last week) never had it happen until she was with me and now I can make it happen on-cue.

You need to ask HER about what stimulates HER. Only the WOMAN'S acceptance and stimulation will allow it to happen. If she's not ready or doesn't want to, it won't.

Hope I helped.

Hmm, usally by another form of stimulation, usally Clit, you can do this while having sex, in almost any position.
thats how my bf does it...