climax??

[Ttricky81]

my girlfriend and i have great sex we will both cum more than once. she has recently learned how to squirt.the only issue is she has a hard time climaxing... she will squirt all over me and bed,not complaining, but she says she doesnt feel like she fully climaxes and cums...and ideas? i just want to make her happy! cause she makes me very happy.

[dancingdoc2]

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To find an answer to your question please answer the following:

* Has your girlfriend learned to masturbate, and if so, can she climax regularly and consistently on her own?

* It is important to know that orgasms are much more problematical for women than they are for guys. This means trickier to accomplish. If she is fully orgasmic then I suggest that she take your hand in hers and move it in ways that she knows will bring about a climax. Do this several times until you learn to mimic her technique. Equally as important is that she provide feedback {verbal and/or non-verbal) on how she is responding to your caresses and for what she needs now/next.

Making love is not what we do to each other; rather, what we do with and for each other in partnership.

> i just want to make her happy!

You can by simply being attentive and giving her a great experience overall. Making love is not all about orgasms. While orgasms are nice and feel good, they are not the imperative that they are for men. Women can enjoy romance, and a romp in the hay, without having orgasms. Each of us is responsible for our own orgasms. All we can do as a partner is to help her/him attain them.

Explore and learn together in partnership. I hope this is of help. Got questions?

-doc

[g-dubz]

Originally Posted by Ttricky81

my girlfriend and i have great sex we will both cum more than once. she has recently learned how to squirt.the only issue is she has a hard time climaxing... she will squirt all over me and bed,not complaining, but she says she doesnt feel like she fully climaxes and cums...and ideas? i just want to make her happy! cause she makes me very happy.

Seems to me she's already happy if she's squirting and not complaining.

[xiaomin]

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