bored

[cnichols]

ok as you know im 14. and i just recently had my first time eating, fingering and cuming on a girl we basicly fucked exept she wouldnt let me put it in.... and everything was awesome except her pussy smelt bad and that was a turn off. any advice on how to get past that ? and also was wondering if there were any girls on here that wouldnt mind e mailing me or anything and give me advice on how to be better in bed or any secrets ?

[Ducy]

Why would anyone need to email you advice? This isn't a hook up site and everything you need can be found by searching through the forums. Smell can be attributed to improper hygeine and diet. I have found girls who eat a ton of junk food or are overweight smell pretty aweful. Also if they are near their period they can smell and taste different.

Read the pleasing her section of this forum for advice on how to "be better"

[dancingdoc2]

Young Master Nichols,

Did you take my recommendation in my first reply back in March about reading the articles in the Index? Please do read each and every one. You will find answers to your questions and will no doubt find answers to questions you do not yet know you have. Knowledge is empowering! Thank you for asking and to seek answers.

Every one of us should freshen up prior to having sex, it is simply a matter of manners.

As Ducy stated, this site is not a social networking venue. The purpose of the site is to pay it forward with information regarding life, love, romance, and sex, by those who have gone before. If after reading all of the articles and doing some on-site searches using one or both search engines, you cannot find a suitable answer, please do ask.

As for doing all the sexual things you have been doing and want to do, I recommend holding off for a few years. While you have passed thru puberty and are physically capable of experiencing orgasmic pleasure, you are far and away from being emotionally mature enough, or, being responsible enough. The process of changing from a boy into a man is a decade long process. You have about eight more years of change ahead of you. Slow down and be a kid for the time being, you will have the entire rest of your life to participate in adult activities and behaviors.

-doc

[pcp71]

I don't quite get why you titled this question "bored", but oh well

the easiest and direct answer is to take a shower together as foreplay

[dancingdoc2]

> the easiest and direct answer is to take a shower together as foreplay

You gave a pretty good answer, although, I do not believe your comment, above, is applicable to a 14 y/o who may have parents at home, siblings at home, and/or people about to come home. Finding extended alone time for any teen is often difficult.

Each can bathe before meeting each other for their date.

If a make out session follows a long day together, then each can freshen up in a bathroom or public restroom. (Just keep a wash cloth handy.)

That said, I stand by my recommendation that the boy is too young to be fooling around to this extent. If the two of them want to fool around, then limit these activities to Necking or Petting for a few months minimum and while getting to know each other very well. Later if it seems appropriate, they can up the ante' to Foreplay; however, whether to do so or not is more a matter of maturity, so asking him to wait until he is at least sixteen--seventeen may or may not be the correct answer. The two of them should slow down and continue being kids for the foreseeable future. Once they get beyond nineteen, their childhood will be all gone, so enjoy it while you can.

Asking a horny kid with raging hormones to take it slow will no doubt fall upon deaf ears as he likely dismisses sage practical advice in favor of having immediate gratification. Kids in this situation should simply wait for their brains to catch up to their physical abilities and in the meantime--m a s t u r b a t e as often as necessary.

Now to all who are reading this thread: kids! begin preparing for the future by reading all of the articles listed in the Index.

-doc