What to do when your fantasy becomes a reality?I have been chatting and flirting to a lovely married man who deeply loves his wife of 17yrs.According to him she and i are very similar,except for a few subtle differences re height,weight and sexual preferences.They have a good sex life,and often after he has chatted to me he has used our shared fantasies to give his wife lots of enjoyable sex.He now wants to end our chats as he feels that he is betraying his wifes trust.I also think he may be developing feelings for me.I do respect his decision and won't push him to keep in contact with me,although i am sad and disappointed.Maybe it's a good thing that he is living overseas,and that i kept it playful and fun knowing he is married,and i even included his wife in our chats as she has a fantasy of watching her husband with another woman

