is it normal?

[erotic-massage]

is it normal that all of a sudden my dick gets hard in a public place? nothing causes it either. and my mind stays clean. how can i prevent my dick from getting hard out of nowhere? its embarrassing to stand and have to hide the bulge in my pants

[Brandye]

Well, I do not have a penis to worry about. As a young woman I thought erect was the natural state of the penis. Seems like any time I got near one it was standing up!

[dancingdoc2]

My confusion being that you stated on -
5/24 - "my girl shaves and i shave."

5/28 - "2yrs ago i started shaving my pubic hair"

5/28 - "ok this happened lastnight! (5/27/10) my wife and i were havin sex"

5/28 - "i was in shock and my girl just went along with it."

5/28 - "i love bein naked around the house and sleep nude. problem is my wife dont let me."

6/3 - "well my wife loves it comletely shaved and so do i."

6/6 - "i've tried so so so hard to make my wife"

6/7 - "when my wife helps"

6/30 - "find someone locally... thats how i did it with my gf"

Do you have a girlfriend? Do you have a wife? Do you refer to your wife interchangeably as your "girlfriend"?

8/11 - is it normal that all of a sudden my dick gets hard in a public place? nothing causes it either. and my mind stays clean. how can i prevent my dick from getting hard out of nowhere? its embarrassing...

If you are old enough to be married, I am confused how you could reach this stage of life and not know all about "spontaneous erections". You sound for all the world to be a young teen who wants to sound older and more mature.

Here is a quote from a reply several months ago: "Depending upon age and sex drive, spontaneous erections can happen anywhere from several times an hour to several times a day. Each magically appears, stays for awhile, then goes away."

Spontaneous Erections are bothersome, particularly for young teens because they are annoying, and, possibly visible thru trousers and bathing suits. They can be triggered by erotic thoughts, smells, touch, walking close to someone known or unknown, by visual stimuli such as seeing a mannequin, beautiful girl/woman, advertisement, etc.

These happen quite often right out of puberty and diminish in frequency over the next several decades. Once you reach some point in your late forties to mid fifties, they will generally disappear altogether. There is nothing to be done about preventing them. You can hide them by wearing briefs and positioning your erect penis directly under the fly of your trousers. Doing so will do a pretty good job of camouflaging them. If need be, just place a hand inside your front pocket and move your penis as necessary.

[dlb]

Completely normal. I am 49 and it still happens sometimes

[spaced]

Self control is a skill that you learn as you mature. You'll eventually find neat little mental tricks to handle this problem (which isn't even a problem and is quite normal).

[dancingdoc2]

This is the first time I have ever heard of this. I consider myself to be strong-willed, yet your comment makes me think I'm weak minded, now.

[brian11zy]

It is natural, some time if it's been awhile since I have had sex even the tightness of the pants I am wearing will cause just enough friction to cause me to get an erection. I have always felt it was just my body telling me it needs some attention.

[raunchy gal]

My son's friend(17)recently got an erection when my daughter (16)walked into the room.He said "look what you've done to me"My daughter was disgusted and quickly departed.I said to him "I'll do something to you in a minute",and i wasn't referring to sex either!!!

[EvilEvilKitten]

Yes, it is normal.