Threesome or moresome

[sania]

Do girls or even boys really enjoy Moresome. I think, there is no intimacy left when 3 or more guys or girls are around you. You are just a sex toy for the group to enjoy. I wonder whether girls go for it. I think its just in pronos that it is done. Any one who have done it can enlighten whats the fun in it. I again repeat its just Sex and no love or emotions. Isn't it ?? I think girls like love mixed with sex.

[Rouge]

If you're even a tiny bit exhibitionistic, it can be lots of fun (assuming proper boundaries are outlined.)

Not all sex must be completley intimate imo; a lil dirt can't hurt. I personally prefer to have sex for fun and generally not as an emotional thing (although with my partner, whom I've been with for a while now, intimacy is a very nice contrast). To say that all girls like love mixed with sex is quite the overstatement.

As someone who has been a part of a threesum (FFF, with a lesbian couple who were a month away from marriage), I can safely say that there was still emotion in it. It had been a fantasy for one partner, and the other enjoyed it because she was pleasing her partner. I was a toy, and really didn't mind at all. This being said, my partner would be admittedly mad if he had to "share" me with another guy. On the contrary, I'm looking forward to the idea of a ffm threesum with him. The fun for me will be seeing his reactions and having my own fun time with a chick.

This all depends on how open you are. For a background, we're a couple who enjoy pushing the limits, have a toy chest with more pieces in it than a surgeon's tools (and make active use of them) and are busy playing together sometimes upwards of 3x a day.

[sania]

Originally Posted by Rouge

If you're even a tiny bit exhibitionistic, it can be lots of fun (assuming proper boundaries are outlined.)

Not all sex must be completley intimate imo; a lil dirt can't hurt. I personally prefer to have sex for fun and generally not as an emotional thing (although with my partner, whom I've been with for a while now, intimacy is a very nice contrast). To say that all girls like love mixed with sex is quite the overstatement.

As someone who has been a part of a threesum (FFF, with a lesbian couple who were a month away from marriage), I can safely say that there was still emotion in it. It had been a fantasy for one partner, and the other enjoyed it because she was pleasing her partner. I was a toy, and really didn't mind at all. This being said, my partner would be admittedly mad if he had to "share" me with another guy. On the contrary, I'm looking forward to the idea of a ffm threesum with him. The fun for me will be seeing his reactions and having my own fun time with a chick.

This all depends on how open you are. For a background, we're a couple who enjoy pushing the limits, have a toy chest with more pieces in it than a surgeon's tools (and make active use of them) and are busy playing together sometimes upwards of 3x a day.

You are right. My hubby shares me with one of his friend. He likes me getting the max. Thats fun. His friend also shares his wife to my hubby. But i cant just imagine if 2 or 3 more guys come . Then you are just a toy.

[sania]

We are a group of 8 couples. Good friends who usually go outing together and have a nice time every month end. Few days back while we all were chit chatting and having our drinks, one wild idea came to one of guys. To have mens party on every alternate month end. One of us should join them without hubby. Surprisingly most of them agreed. But girls were divided as three of us were not ready. My self bcoz to handle 7 guys and that to boozed and in total devastating mood.. I am bit afraid eventhough they are friends. Especially bcoz I dont like anal and with 5 guys free they would not spare any opening of mine. Who would stop them in that mood. Same with other girls.
Lot of discussions / persuations took place of how girls would enjoy. Later they suggested one more of us can join. One of them suggested to rate our performance and decide the best girl. We refused. We told we are the best and thats why you are persuading us. so status quo maintained.
I feel handling so many guys would be a problem. I dont know. I would not risk.

[2little]

i was with 2 guys once. way back in my late teen years, and i found it to be confusing, i enjoyed it, don't get me wrong, but the 2 guys i was with knew i didn't want anal so while the one gave it to me i gave the other head, and took turns. it was fun but i felt like i was doing to much work ha ha and couldn't enjoy myself.

[Pure_Energy]

Personally, I couldn't be involved in a threesome. Especially if it included my guy. I don't want another girl touching him or him touching another girl. And I don't think I could have 2 guys at once... Though my boyfriend does want to try a threesome someday. It'll be interesting to see what happens when he starts pushing the subject a little more.

Is it normal to not want another girl touching your man... even if its outta lust rather than love?

[vibrator]

I think guys might enjoy it more, but eventually you want a real relationship with a real connection.

[EvilEvilKitten]

"Do girls or even boys really enjoy Moresome."

YES!

But moresomes are not the time to expect deep romantic intimacy forming a deep inner attachment yadda yadda yadda so on and so forth.

THEY'RE ONLY FOR FUN!

and what's wrong with having fun?

7 guys - no problem - because I am a dominatrix and the men will do as they are told and like it - or they can go home without enjoying sex at all - makes no difference to me, dude!

IT IS ALL IN YOUR ATTITUDE because once everyone's naked, men rarely 'fuss' and they say "Yes ma'am." quite nicely.

[Rouge]

Originally Posted by sania

You are right. My hubby shares me with one of his friend. He likes me getting the max. Thats fun. His friend also shares his wife to my hubby. But i cant just imagine if 2 or 3 more guys come . Then you are just a toy.

There's no shame in being a toy, some will go as far as saying that it's better! You can be a toy in a two person relationship, it just depends on the bond.

If it's emotional connection, you won't find it in a "moresome". If you're looking for a good time with NSA, I'm pretty sure you'll find it.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Pure Energy - well it is kind of normal but it does mark you as being a loser so do you really want to go there?

You can't touch my man because:

1. he might prefer you to me and I can't risk losing him because..whatever.
2. you might be better at sex than I am and I cannot compete.
3. I am 'selfish' and have to be the center of attention all of the time.

What you're really saying is that you are insecure and that you do not trust him or the bond between you and him.

If you can't rid yourself of such feelings, moresomes of any kind are NOT for you.