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For women it should be easier to share a man, IMO. In nature, a female's only drive is to get pregnant. It doesn't matter by whom technically (although finest of the species is the goal). A male can easily get more than one female pregnant, thus erasing our primal drive to keep one alone.
If a male were to share a female, however, it would go against his biological calling to ensure that whatever offspring are produced are HIS. This is the biological difference.
The difference in society is this: Women will do anything to keep a guy, because they believe they are REPLACEABLE. Women generally aren't, but make themselves so when they show obvious insecurities and get nitpicky (normal insecurities are fine, I'm taking about those which make you wary of everything he does and wary of the numbers in his phone, etc.)
If you'd like to battle this, you need to grow-up and realize this:
If you believe you are replaceable, you will be replaced. If you make yourself irreplaceable, an orgy of supermodels wouldn't take him away.
It's in your hands.
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I would encourage thinking outside the box if there was any thinking going on inside it.
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