How do I drive my bf wild during the 1st time we have sex?

[sexyangel 1]

Just so ya'll know, my bf will be visiting 4 a week cause he lives in Bethpage, NY, and I won't be able to constantly give him handjobs/blowjobs. Sniff.

[dark.chocolate.body]

Well honestly as long as you do it the 1 time and make it as great as u want to make it then he wont complain. Why wont you be able to do it as much?

[lnt1103]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

You want to really blow his mind?

Leave him no choice.
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That will change his life.

Depends on the temperament of the guy. T is so fidgety in all the rest of life that the restricted movement wouldn't work for him in bed. But one thing I've started recently is, instead of undressing him myself, I just keep teasing until he decides he needs them off. It builds the desire and anticipation.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Actually it is the 'fidgety' guys who benefit most, Int.

[lnt1103]

Not if they're SO fidgety that they can't get their brain around the concept of not being able to fidget, and therefore won't try it. We tried it for a few minutes once--all he can really articulate about it is, he needs to be able to move around.

Ohhh, light bulb: I just discovered this week that his brother is claustrophobic, I wonder if T has just a touch of that with regard to this.

[EvilEvilKitten]

They fuss, they fight, they fume - but in the end - they do accept it and when the reward comes and sends them past Jupiter via an intense orgasm, they do not mind at all!

Not really claustrphobic - more like issues with what it means to masculine vis-a-vs sex. He wants to DO something. Tsk tsk tsk - if he needs to DO something let him work on self-control.

Of course, I never said it would be easy.

Once again, this is about exploring and accepting ALL the facets of one's sexuality. Some men find this more difficult to do than others. But if he can lie still for a massage and body worship the rest will come easier so do The Program with him.

[sexdiva68]

definately full out blowjob and swallow...once he recovers, cowgirl til he busts againg then let him drill...overly enjoy it to boost his confidence...