Hiring a Pro~ Threesome

[hush_hush_baby]

Looking for advice from those who know.
My husband and I make an annual trip to Vegas every year. Last year we went to a strip club, and
he bought me my 1st lap dance. We were both tickled at how much I enjoyed it. I have never had an encounter with another woman, nor ever engaged in any type of sexual activity other than a committed male female relationship. I am now toying with the idea of a threesome. FMF.
I have been on line reading and think that what might work best for us, would be a trip to one of the legal brothels outside of Las Vegas. I would like to hear about others experiences with professionals and would like to read suggestions, tips, or ideas how to make the most of an adventure like this.
Thanks in advance,

[Brandye]

Check with your local swingers club. I am certain that there are prostitutes who service this market. You assume all the risks of dealing with any sex professional including the last several dozen men she has been with.

[EvilEvilKitten]

You seriously need to think more about this. The ONLY reason to go with a professional sex worker is if you are socially handicapped in some way. Fear is a huge red flag. If you fear "emotional involvement" or your partner's jealousy or any thing else other than your ability to show the additional partner a good time - you need to think some more about having a threesome of any variety.

Your local swing club - there are lots in Las Vegas - will help you sort it out.
Go make some friends and talk to them.

Please remember that professional sex workers are usually not there by their own free choice and they have to take whoever comes assuming he/she meets their price. Do you really want to be a part of that?

[hush_hush_baby]

thank you for new things to think about.
I had been thinking about a pro, just because going to a high profile brothel in it'self just sounded like something we would find very fun. Of course doing something like this so far from home seemed safer than playing around here.
I am very private, and would be very concerned about this activity getting out, we live in a tiny town. The other aspect I found appealing, is to me a pro is just that, she would not bring any emotional risks, and should be educated enough to be sensitive to my needs as a 1st time bi encounter )
Again, I thank you for your thoughts!

[EvilEvilKitten]

Sweety - I do 3-somes all of the time and, trust me on this, the sex is better with friends. Frankly, the pro only cares about your money. They will play the game so you'll want to come back and pay more money. Any sensitivity is just part of their job. = fake, fake, fake.

[SnakeBabe]

At a swingers club you could end up with nothing. Most of us have spouses who will want to get into the action too and you dont sound like you are interested in adding a man to the mix.
But
if your interested in attending a very low pressure kind of swingers off premise group look up the Purrfect Parties. There are two each month. Very laid back groups that meet at dance clubs in casinos. If you meet a match you then go off to a private suite. The swingers clubs may not offer you the privacy you need. Guys like to stand around and jerk off as they watch you. not my idea of a good time...unless they pay me lol
Hugs and Hissessss,
Maria

[wet_suit_one]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

You seriously need to think more about this. The ONLY reason to go with a professional sex worker is if you are socially handicapped in some way. Fear is a huge red flag. If you fear "emotional involvement" or your partner's jealousy or any thing else other than your ability to show the additional partner a good time - you need to think some more about having a threesome of any variety.

Your local swing club - there are lots in Las Vegas - will help you sort it out.
Go make some friends and talk to them.

Please remember that professional sex workers are usually not there by their own free choice and they have to take whoever comes assuming he/she meets their price. Do you really want to be a part of that?

Eh, while I'm sure this is the case in some circumstances, I am totally certain it is not the case in most circumstances in my neck of the woods. I'm sure it's especially the case where a sex worker puts up her own website, answers her own mail and calls, makes appointments, sets up electronic payment arrangements and so forth.

A sex worker locked away in some hotel room is one thing. A sex worker freely advertising on the web or working out of a brother where she comes and goes as she pleases (except she has to show up for work just like anyone else) who's paid 200 - 300 per hour, drives an awesome car (etc. etc. etc.), I rather doubt that she doesn't want to be there making all that money.

[kalall]

good discussion get to know lots of things thanx

[EvilEvilKitten]

Oh yes, money is the measure of all things with you, WSO.

If it makes money - it must be good.

Prostitute, WSO, the word is Prostitute.

[wet_suit_one]

I'm not saying money is the measure of all things. I'm reasonably sure that a woman who makes 200 - 300 per hour has choices and has the financial wherewithal to walk away from a situation she doesn't like. Financial slavery, unlike crack hos selling bj's for $10 a pop in the slum, is not their problem. There may be coercive bastard in the background, but they could hire a hit man with day's pay.

I'm not saying it's nice or something you should like, but I am saying that they are very unlikely to be coerced. Heck, why not take 20 bucks, catch a cab and goto the cops if they're coerced? Ask a client for help maybe? Coerced, my a$$...

Especially when they have their own website that they update regularly, are in good health, are reasonably happy etc. etc. etc. Somehow, they don't strike me as being "coerced" in any way shape or form...

As for them being "fake fake fake," well I seriously doubt that anyone expects any real "love" per se. True sexual enjoyment may be asking a bit much on her part, but as long as she can fake it well enough, who cares? You're paying her, not the other way around...

Also, as far as sex professionals go, are the male hookers also all "coerced"? Do tell, or is it a female only victim class?