Anal on Myself

[SoVeryWilling]

Every time I try to pleasure myself anally, I get to a point where I seem to hit a wall. Then I cannot go in any further. I mean is seems that I can only get in maybe 4 inches... If I use a very thin small dildo ok, but that's not fun. It seems like I have move around a corner or something in there.

Also here's the big question, Why is it every single time I play anally I always, ummm this is gross... Defecate????? The urge to, is very strong. I get to a point where I am almost to point of ejaculation and my muscles force out and push out the stuff...

It turns me off and ends up to be a total "waste" of time... Sorry about the pun...

I'm not sure if I was able to explain my self properly...

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by SoVeryWilling

Every time I try to pleasure myself anally, I get to a point where I seem to hit a wall. Then I cannot go in any further. I mean is seems that I can only get in maybe 4 inches...

Interesting. Do you know what that part of your anatomy looks like? Have you looked at illustrations of the digestive tract and other body parts? Do you know how fragile the tissue is to being poked and prodded? If not, I suggest you open up a good book on the subject, or, do an internet search. You are poking around in fragile territory. You are very naive if you think there is a straight run with no turns and bends from the stomach to the anus.

If I use a very thin small dildo ok, but that's not fun. It seems like I have move around a corner or something in there.

You are risking injury!

Also here's the big question, Why is it every single time I play anally I always, ummm this is gross... Defecate?????

In a word: stimulation. Go to the bathroom sometime before hand.
Of course there may be some residual fecal matter to contend with.

The urge to, is very strong. I get to a point where I am almost to point of ejaculation and my muscles force out and push out the stuff...

Asked and answered.

It turns me off and ends up to be a total "waste" of time... Sorry about the pun...

The outside of the anus and inside along the sphincters are very sensitive nerve endings. They turn on and become very reactive when you are very highly aroused. I recommend waiting and then working with them at this time. Also, do you know about the prostate gland? It also contributes a great deal of pleasure when rubbed and massaged just prior to climaxing.

"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
This is also an excellent tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of Anal stimulation as well as play.

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[DVDBear]

Originally Posted by SoVeryWilling

Also here's the big question, Why is it every single time I play anally I always, ummm this is gross... Defecate????? The urge to, is very strong. I get to a point where I am almost to point of ejaculation and my muscles force out and push out the stuff...

It turns me off and ends up to be a total "waste" of time... Sorry about the pun...

I'm not sure if I was able to explain my self properly...

Clean out using a bulb ear syringe and warm (not HOT) water. Do it several times until the water comes back clean. It is not necessary or advisable to use a lot of water . . . . you're only interested in cleaning the lower bowel, not a full on colonic. Too much water can be difficult to expel and cause things to start moving, causing a bigger mess.