Cl

[smallestoftheclan]

You all crack me up. And Sera I'm a big girl, and very crafty you may not even see me vanish with that lifeguard. LOL
CL can you do any tricks on that surfboard?

[constantlylearning]

Terrible..............get dunked really well.........and sunburned a touch. That
poor lifeguard.

[sera300]

Poor lifeguard? No, lucky guy! Have to keep her tied to the seat so she cannot so craftily sneak off...LOL! Safety purposes only there, always have to tell someone where you went to! LOL!

[smallestoftheclan]

Always let someone know where you are at. Although I did that once and didn't have any reception. LOL Nice guy and let me use his phone, then all I got was her voicemail, she was out with her mom. So when she tried to call me back she got my voicemail, no reception remember. While driving back to town I hear my phone beep, silly lady.
Then again she knew that if she didn't hear from me in 24 hours what to do, she has my address, had his address and name. She didn't live in Michigan anymore, then again neither did he. LOL

And CL, yes the poor lifeguard sure didn't see me coming did he......

[smallestoftheclan]

Forget the sunburn, sand is much worse......

[sera300]

I am sure your mother was really happy to hear your news along with your grandmother, LOL!

I used to leave the info. [if meeting someone new out] on my counter top at my house with full info. If he picked me up; I always put the license plate & the vehicle make color & year with it.

That way if I went missing; family knew the spot to find anything. If I did not plan on going home while I was dating my former fiance, I called my brother since he was the closest contact to me & the first my parents would call if they needed me...LOL! But the dogs make it a necessity to be home which is always a good excuse to get out of a bad date or unwanted situation!

[smallestoftheclan]

Sera is was a girlfriend and her mom, who I don't know.

My brother thinks he is my dad enough I try to leave him out of my sex life. He thinks I'm 4, whatever dude....

[sera300]

Originally Posted by smallestoftheclan

Sera is was a girlfriend and her mom, who I don't know.

My brother thinks he is my dad enough I try to leave him out of my sex life. He thinks I'm 4, whatever dude....

Sorry It's my misread & understood as soon as you pointed it out. Must be the blur of the sun in my eyes!

You spoke with people you did not know? My brother cannot get into it since he is the younger & I have bailed him out when he was younger. He is liberal and never gave me a hard time; however, I never expounded into the details. Just where I was & how to reach me [he knew since it was my former fiance's home & they got along well]. He always liked him & thought he was good for me; therefore, he did not ask & I did not tell. Later found out my parents really did not care either...same attitude; if with him & not home; don't ask & I did not need to tell as they put it they did not care to hear what was happening since I was 40! They did not wish to hear I spent the night with a man I was not married to since it was against their beliefs yet they understood the dilemma we were in & preferred either of us not to travel at night. One thing though, of the times I did try to stay there...I never could sleep. Seemed erie to me since it was a home he & his ex-wife picked out together. Upon their split he did keep some of the home decor [not the bed] and it gave me the creeps.

I preferred if we stayed over; it was here since it was a new build & disposed of anything which belonged to my former husband long ago. I know, I am odd!

[smallestoftheclan]

Not at all, odd that is.
I think that's one of the reason's I didn't have an issue with staying at Goof's. One for my health reasons and two it was always just his house, no female touches. Well the few I made, candles, nice soap in the kitchen and in the bath, high count sheets, although he loves flannel sheets and they are actually nice on our chilly nights and with the stars on the ceiling it really did feel like sleeping out (only no critters).
My younger brother was much more open to my relationships than my older brother will ever be. He is 4 years and 3 days older and well I am a whole lot more mature than him. Although this new girlfriend he has seems to be good for him. She and her daughter moved into his place 2 weeks after meeting???
I've told my older brother that I am a big girl and I have no issue with telling you where I am or who I am with but don't lecture me because this is my life. He was with the witch from h e double hockey sticks for 30 years and she hated that I had the life I did. Jealous sister in law syndrome I call it, so glad she is gone from his life. Although they have been divorced a year now and she still calls him, he needs to stop taking her calls for him and his new relationship.
Brothers will be brothers, and us sisters will be sisters.

[constantlylearning]

Oh isnt the sun and blue sky so BEAUTIFUL.................ride that excitement
and adventure............YES.