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[mischa]

hello everyone
has any man (or woman for that matter) ever - and I mean EVER - gotten a date out of Amateurmatch, Sexsearch? I have just cancelled my profile in AM and SS in disgust. I have received approx. 50 emails in two months, answered them all (interest or none, on my part) and have never received an answer. I realize that a number of the members are shills for other adult websites .... but ALL of them? And even if they are - where is the money if they don't get back to me after making the initial contact? I reached tech.support for Amateurmatch (and that took some doing), explained my problem; they informed my via email that tests were run and everything was running normally. Period. End of discussion.
I'd really like to hear from anyone who has had similar experiences. Or were yours better than mine? If they were: goodie for you! but let me hear them anyway
Michael

[sera300]

Put a profile on "plenty of fish" and clearly describe what you want, a bit about yourself, and very clearly what you do not want...

[mischa]

can you say that again, please? In prose an oldtimer like myself can understand - or 'dig' - or is that out already?

[HardNgood]

Sera is mentioning a site called "plenty of fish"...type that in google and see what POF(plenty of fish) is all about...all in all, it's one way to see people in your area, but the best thing is to get off the computer and GO OUT to places and interact with people..

[-wittyphrasehere-]

Just remember you don't find bride or groom material in bars or clubs.

[mischa]

not interested in brides and such.
Been there ....
interested in the experience of others who tried to secure like-minded company using AmateurMatch in particular.

[oedipussy]

Originally Posted by -wittyphrasehere-

Just remember you don't find bride or groom material in bars or clubs.

Why not? Most people that go to bars are normal human beings. Don't winos deserve love too?

[cjb1981]

I met my current girlfriend of a year on yahoo's personals page. E harmony's also not too bad.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Ahem...major sites such as adultfriendfinder, and its sister-sites, as well as, swinglifestyle, and to a lessor degree, adultplayground offer the widest net of possibles in ANY area.

As to has anyone ever gotten a date from such sites - Yes.

You have to remember that there are many more men on such sites than women - generally the ratio is something like 20 men for each woman and not all of the woman will be seeking men.

It comes down to how effectively you market yourself, how frequently you are in the chatrooms chatting with people, how many tailored emails you send out, and how often you attend their social events, if any. The more you are seen, the wider your 'name recognition' and the more possibles you get.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by mischa

can you say that again, please? In prose an oldtimer like myself can understand - or 'dig' - or is that out already?

Plentyoffish.com has all offers. LTR, Friends, sex, swingers, couples, gays. Take your choice in the options you pick...Use a name which is suitable for what you want...and clearly state what you do not...ie: not looking for a bride. Going out & meeting is best. The internet only places you in touch with those who you would not normally find out.