Threesome without Contact ?

[RexyRay]

Just wondered, if anyone has let thier partner have a boyfriend/girlfriend ? My wife had a relationship with a guy at work for nearly 2 years with my full knowledge. yes and it did involve sex !

[Brandye]

Hardly meets the definition of a threesome. And I suspect there are many, many marriages that include outside sex with approval - tacit or active. What is the big deal?

[machine_rat]

I didn't have a problem when my girlfriend would fool around with other girls. Maybe I would be a little bit jealous that I couldn't be there as well, but I always thought that is was better than her sleeping with other guys. One time a coworker of mine was arguing with me, saying that being intimate with anybody else, regardless of sex, was still cheating.

I don't understand married couples that have open relationships... why be married in the first place?

[sera300]

Originally Posted by machine_rat

I didn't have a problem when my girlfriend would fool around with other girls. Maybe I would be a little bit jealous that I couldn't be there as well, but I always thought that is was better than her sleeping with other guys. One time a coworker of mine was arguing with me, saying that being intimate with anybody else, regardless of sex, was still cheating.

I don't understand married couples that have open relationships... why be married in the first place?

The open relationships are more about the sex not the commitment to the relationship or marriage. The emotional bond is strongest in a good marriage to the spouse since that is whom you return to daily and depend on. Your spouse is your mainstay in daily life.

And the open relationship is honest not based on betrayal & deceit.