Boyfriend disappeared - can any one please help me!

[Cook2b]

well basicaly im engaged (i think < this is explained ) to my bf, up until bout 2 months ago now everything was fine, amazing even id never been so happy we loved each other etc. when he droped me off at the trainstation to go back home tha last time i saw him i kissed him we huged etc and i left..(we live 160 miles apart )
so i get home and for a week we spoke as nomral few times a day every day b4 we go sleep etc.. and then he told me his phone broke so he got it fixed - it took a week and a half to fix..
after this the amount we spoke over the phone deteriorated prety quick up to about once a week and this was bad enought but tollerable i just thought he may be busy...
but eventualy he stopped calling all together and when i called he sounded too busy or he had to go .. hed basicaly make excuses not to speak to me ..
i soon then thought i could be pregnant from the last time i saw him ( we have been trying for a baby) and i needed to tell him so i called and there was no answer this was for about a week
but eventualy he picked up and again he had to go so i asked him to call me that night and he never did...
i stil havent heard from him . and its been almost two months..
i called him phone the other day and a boy answerd who wasnt my bf and said he had bought the phone.
so now ive had no contact with him for almost two months and im very sad confused and just missing him

does anyone have any ideas as to why this has haappend or ways to just get hold of people! im so confused i dont know what to think-
has somthing happend to him? has he dumped me?! wha do you think?

sory this is so long just alot to say and sory its a bit scrambled my heads all over the place

thank you do much for any replys

lillymae xx

[oedipussy]

OK, here's your number 1 issue as far as I can tell - you're 160 miles away from each other. That's a huge dealbreaker right there. No one wants to go 2 months without seeing their significant other. If he hasn't dumped you, one of you better take the initiative and move. Like, right now.

Wanna talk to him about it and figure out what's up? Get in the car and DRIVE, woman!

[Cook2b]

yeah i know we talked about moving in together i was guna move down there but it wasnt possible up until about a month ago at which point i have no contact.

and i did drive down there but i got lost and couldnt find his house once at were he lives down south! so i drove back!!

:S

[oedipussy]

Alright, now I'm confused... Are you saying that he literally dropped off the face of the Earth and that his house disappeared?

Hopefully this is all just a big misunderstanding, but I'll be honest with you - it doesn't sound good.

[Cook2b]

thats how it feels yeah like hes just disapeard! its horrible i feel sick all the time from missing him etc !
andno im not sayin his house has disapeard lol! he normaly picks me up from the train station and drives me to his house. and i never rele took notice of the area or how to get there! so once i was in the right city i was jus driving round trying to find it! and i couldnt..

n i no it doesnt sound good so now im just wondering. what do i do?!

[oedipussy]

Do you know what his address is?

[Cook2b]

nope i though i new his post code but i got it rong i forgot it lmao.
alls i know is he lives in a 2 bed apartment theyr realy new. and hes on the 4th floor i no it if i see it but i cnt seem to find it again

[oedipussy]

Alright, back to square one...

Do you think if you drove to the train station where he picks you up at you would be able to feel your way to his house? I mean, your eyes were open when he was driving you, right? You've gotta have some idea how to get there...

Best thing I can tell you is, drive and see him as soon as possible if you want to know what's going on.

[Cook2b]

thankyou but i have done that already i did exactly that but every were there looks exactly the same to be honest.! its like impossible i was thinking maybe this is his way of ending it or somthing. maybe it all got to much i dont know

thank you for your extremly quick replies though oedipussy .. ive not spoken to anybosy about this and its quite a relif to get it off my chest lol
xx

[oedipussy]

Hmm... And you don't know anyone who knows him and might be able to help you out?

If that's his way of ending it, good riddance. Find yourself a real man rather than some little boy who runs as soon as things get scary.

You're welcome. Let us know how things work out.