should I ask her friend?

[orodel]

There is a really shy girl that I have been going back and forth with for quite awhile. Shes really not good at expressing her feelings and avoids "embarrassing" questions by just looking at the ground. I know she likes me in some way but I cant figure out if its just in a hook up way or if she wants more. I really dont want to put her on the spot and appear to drill her with such questions.

From a girl's perspective do you think it would be alright if I asked her roommate/best friend "hey, what exactly does so and so want from me?" I'm pretty sure her friend would give me a no BS answer.

[Cook2b]

i think it would be ok to ask her friend if the girl your talking about has mentioned you in anyway and if she knows how shes feeling. or ask her room mate how to go about asking the girl you like the questions you want answerd. i just wouldnt put to much pressure on the room mate to answer the questions as she may have been asked not to tell anyone anything or sumthing =]

[sera300]

If you know her roommate well then I guess it would be alright. I don't understand how people can interpret what does she want form me? When a woman looks away at the slightest bit of discomfort or embarrassment. Hook up? She might be too shy based on what you are saying. Why not just ask her out on a date & see what happens???

[machine_rat]

If you feel comfortable that you will get an honest answer, then yeah, ask.

Although there was this one horror story that I witnessed, similar situation, where the girl in question got incredibly upset that the guy just didn't ask her directly. She felt that it was behind her back.

[drugs123456]

hi friends

one of my friend like me very much but he didn't say anything to me. I also like him. Please tell me that i ask him to be my bf or not?

[Ducy]

Originally Posted by drugs123456

hi friends

one of my friend like me very much but he didn't say anything to me. I also like him. Please tell me that i ask him to be my bf or not?

WHAT?????????????