My girl and I need help

[coolcat72]

I've only been able to get off from oral about 4 times in my life. I'm now 23 and have had a pretty active sex life for years now but being in a serious relationship the past months, my girlfriend has grown frustrated with my problem. Its not that shes bad, shes amazing at what she does, I just can't climax, its always been an issue, not just with her but past relationships. Is there any suggestions for what might help. I definitely think its a mental problem with myself, but if anybody has any suggestions or has the same problem, I really could use some help. Thanks.

[Pillarmerech]

Well that does seem like a problem. I suggest buying some lube, a blindfold, and maybe have her wear a nice outfit for you. Sometimes, from what i am told (since i lack a pennis) and what i know is true for me, not being able to see and only focusing on the sensations works. And a nice lube comes in handy. Try having her mix up a hand job, and blow job. Try doing new motions with her hands to help as well. Much Luck.

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