Frenchkissing

[nicecat]

I have a problem with the way my guy likes to kiss me while using his tongue. He doesn't do it all the time, but when he does it this way its as if he is trying to stick his entire tongue down my throat....and somehow he enjoys this. I do not want to come right out and say "this is not good!" because I don't want to make him fell bad...

[SexySass69]

I'm sorry, what part of him making you gag with his tongue wouldn't make you at least want to tell him it's not enjoyable for you. Don't be confrontational, just talk to him about it and explain that it's not enjoyable for you.

[cyclefreak]

I enjoy french kissing, but I don't usually like to stick my tongue right in like that. The same in response, I'm not too keen when someone does that to me either. It seems too aggressive and rather intrusive somehow, as if one person is trying to dominate the other. I find it also tends to break the spell a bit between you. I prefer it when you meet the other person half way. Its better if you judge how far to go by the level of response that you get.

[cyclefreak]

Don't be afraid to tell him that you don't like it, nicecat. If you don't, then he may incorrectly assume that you like it, and continue doing it.

[nicecat]

I will definitely just have to come out and tell him. Thank you for your comments

[ShyGuyAmI]

My girlfriend flat out told me don't shove my tongue down her throat. So I stick to licking the ridge behind her top front teeth light ly and usially get a little moan from it.