Asian wife, and ex. insecurities

[otter373]

eh nevermind..delete

[Brandye]

You guys (Asian or otherwise) really do not get the picture that we women do not think of your size nearly as much as you do. Your wife likely does not care.

[otter373]

eh never mind

[Brandye]

Read around and see how many women express this same concern regarding past experience - both genders have the same problems. I have well come to the conclusion that the past is the past and should remain there. Beyond the moral/ethical necessity to warn a partner about any diseases, sexual history is no one else's business.

Think beyond it; accept her being your wife; and, get past it. For what it is worth, the only "comparisons" I have ever made about my partners followed my being short-changed by self-described great lovers. I like the line in Nancy Dickerson's autobiography about her liaison with JFK: "It was the most wonderful twenty seconds of my life." I have had a few like that. Maybe that is why I prefer women as lovers.

You have it right on love and sex in the two genders. From sex, we recall those whoe are really bad and maybe a little about someon who did some one thing really well. But you score witrh us in general deportment and being a good guy rather than as a stud.