Some sensable advice?

[Love 2 Lick]

I'm talking to this girl, Samantha, from Albany. I live in WNY, the Buffalo area. We can't see eachother for a while, but I really like her. She makes me happy and I thoroughly enjoy talking to her. She was just in a 3 yr relationship, and I was just in a 1 yr relationship.

I told her that I'm considering us together so I won't do anything with someone and make her mad. She said she doesn't care if I do things with others. I've heard this before and I know that's not the case and told her that she would get mad. She then told me she would get upset and be hurt if I hooked up with someone else.

She then said she doesn't want to think of us as bf/gf, so that tells me that I can act single. Then she says that she'd be hurt if I did something with someone. So I'm supposed be single, yet act like I have a girl. I told her she's scaring me with this and she says that I am single but she would be hurt if I did things with someone, and that she's confused and doesn't know what to say.

Any advice for me?

[sera300]

Hmmmm. She likes you but realizes it may be too soon to jump in to a bf/gf relationship. Keep talking to her...see where it goes, but you are not bf/gf realize no one likes to hear who has hooked up w/who. Rules are all is fair (hook up all either of you want) until you have the "exclusive talk" but you need to see if that is what you both want. This is why it's called dating.

[Love 2 Lick]

We talk every day. We talk on the phone everyday. She's in Albany for college right now and her car can't make the 5 1/2 hr trip to me, my car was crushed so I have no car...

[sera300]

Think about taking the train??? Keep talking to her...

[Love 2 Lick]

I don't even know how to look into train rides....I would do it too....

[sera300]

Go on-line and look at Amtrack...I think they have a line that goes between Buffalo and Albany.

[Love 2 Lick]

Do you happen to know the site?

[sera300]

http://tickets.amtrak.com/itd/amtrak...edule&x=33&y=9

Here's the site w/stops Buffalo to Albany!!!

[Love 2 Lick]

Thanks. I told her about it and she seems excited

[Love 2 Lick]

We both agreed to not having sex for a while. I always seem to get rushed into sex and everytime, that's what the woman stays with me for. Until I don't want to date her anymore and do things to get her to break up with me, usually cheat

She did say no sex for about 2 months, and my whole theory on that, if I get no play whatsoever for 6 months, then bye bye. Oral after about 2 weeks she said, I'm fine with hugging and kissing for a while. I just need my release otherwise I get irritable