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Actually, the answer is "yes" and "no". Let me explain.
The answer is "yes" if doing so frequently interferes with daily obligations such as work or chores or even social activities.
The answer can be "yes" if doing so frequently makes your penis sore. If this happens it can limit your activities in the days to follow. The fix for this is to use lubrication so that you do not chafe the skin of your penis.
The answer is "no" if you are masturbating one or more times a day and can still do it again. We all have a built-in safety mechanism that prevents us from over doing it. If we try to do it too much or too often, our body cries "uncle" and simply refuses to respond for several hours to a day.
If this happens then you have a decision to make for the future. We can masturbate for the pure fun and enjoyment that the activity provides; and, we can masturbate to reduce or eliminate pent up stress and sexual tension. How often and for which reason becomes a balancing act because if you do it too much for the pleasure and then later have a buildup of stress and have reached your limit for the day then you will very likely be on edge for the rest of the day and perhaps a bit testy or irritable depending upon how you handle it.
So, my recommendation is to hold some "sexual energy" in reserve so you can reduce stress and not to use up your daily allotment on the pleasure aspect. If you do not know now, you will in good time learn just how to balance your desires and your needs whether you masturbate once a week, once every few days, one or more times a day. Whatever your frequency, it's all normal.
A case in favor of doing it less often rather than more often is that each orgasm will be stronger and more intense, thus potentially more enjoyable. If, for example, you have the ability and desire to masturbate three or four times a day then each subsequent climax will be somewhat less intense than the previous one. So, this also becomes part of the balancing act we must manage. It takes the average guy a good 24-48 hours to fully recoup and to develop a full head of "steam", again.
I hope this is of help.
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Life without dancing?
I don't think so......
The feet may learn the steps;
yet only the spirit can dance!
Dancing is the fastest way to get
a girl alone and into your arms in public.
The Tango smolders and burns. It ignites the
heart, the soul, and yes, the libido.
Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass,
it's about learning how to Dance in the Rain!
Dance as if nobody is watching.
Last edited by dancingdoc2; 01-07-2007 at 12:55 AM..
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