A few questions

[rockerkid]

I im brand new here and have a few questions. Well first I am only 13 but have not learned a lot about sexual health or any of that for a reason. So I have a few questions I am unsure about my self.
1.My penis, when erect, bend straight up and at the head a little foward. Is this normal, good or bad?

2.I get unwanted erections often and in school and every where. Is this normal or weird or will it go away?

3. Umm yeah when my balls hang low or arent hard, one is bigger then the other, and the smaller one is kinda like lose or bumpy, well lose where it is bumpy. And I have been ...hit... there a number of times. Soccer, hacky sack, skateboarding. So would this be a bad thing or somthing. I dont experience pain there or get head aches.

So some help to give me clarity would be nice.

[dancingdoc2]

> I im brand new here and have a few questions.

Hi there, and welcome to the Board.

> I am only 13 but have not learned a lot about sexual health or any of that for a reason. So I have a few questions I am unsure about my self.
> 1.My penis, when erect, bend straight up and at the head a little foward. Is this normal, good or bad?

A person's penis tends to grow unevenly one direction or another. This is quite normal. Some guys have a slight bend left, right, up, down, or even straight out with a slight bend near the end. This is tied to growth patterns on each side of the shaft and has nothing to do with how you masaturbate or anything else.

> 2.I get unwanted erections often and in school and every where. Is this normal or weird or will it go away?

This is very very normal. Every boy experiences unwanted "spontaneous erections". They are the result of raging hormones at this stage of life. Additional triggers are things like sensual stimuli from seeing pictures in a catalog, billboard posters, mannequins in a store; having a vivid imagination or fantasy, smells, standing next to somebody, etc.

Spontaneous erections will go away in time--like twenty or thirty years from now. The good news is that in a few years they will happen with less frequency and be less of a bother. In the meantime you can hide them by positioning your penis so it faces upward toward your belly button and is centered beneath the fly of your pants. When your penis decides to expand, the folds of your fly will camouflage your "mound". Simply place your hand in your front pocket and move your penis. It helps to wear briefs rather than boxers because briefs will help hold your penis in an upward position whether it is flaccid or erect.

> 3. Umm yeah when my balls hang low or arent hard, one is bigger then the other, and the smaller one is kinda like lose or bumpy, well lose where it is bumpy. And I have been ...hit... there a number of times. Soccer, hacky sack, skateboarding. So would this be a bad thing or somthing. I dont experience pain there or get head aches.

Usually no damage will come from an occasional hit; however, a severe impact can do damage there as it would if it landed anywhere else. I recommend wearing a jock strap/athletic supporter when playing sports.

One testicle is always larger than its mate and one will hang lower when the scrotum is dangling and not hugging the body up close. The reason the scrotum becomes longer/looser and tighter is to maintain a constant temperature that the testes require that is a couple of degrees less than your body's core temperature.

You have asked excellent questions. Please feel free to ask others as they come to mind. In the meantime, here is a link to an excellent resource for boys your age:

http://members.optusnet.com.au/~austbua/

[rockerkid]

Thanks.
I don't think it is testicular cancer since the site said at the front or side while where I have many loose bumps are on the buttom. Its not one big annoying lump.