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Originally Posted by fabian_haas
if he's worried about hurting you then just make a safty word, i know it sounds silly but seriously, you can talk to him and take a word like pancake and if he is being too rough and you are not liking it anymore, then say pancake and make sure he understands that that means to stop so you won't get hurt.
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yeah, what this person said is basically it, a word unrelated to sex. My partner and I find that we did that and it got to the point where he just knows how far to go so you might not even have to use it forever.
Try a collar and lead, my lover loves it when I have one.
