hanging on by a thread

[mormegil]

i like this girl who says she likes me whenever i try and arrange 2 meet she says she cant (she says shes busy) this i can handle though not sure for how long. but this girl went to a party (i wasnt there) and she rang me a few times and said things where going bad so i offered her my spare room she declined. i heard from her the next day and she told me she kissed another bloke (despite the fact she had been telling me she loved me whilst at the party) she then had a go at me for being slightly pissed off at her actions. she told me that she had been "out of it" and the bloke had said she was "beautiful" when she rang me she didnt sound like she was that drunk and i think that kissing some1 just for giving a compliment is a bit of a poor excuse.

i havent even flirted with another girl since we have been saying we like each other is it wrong of me to expect the same
am i wrong to be arguing with her for this or am i in the right what do u think??

[dancingdoc2]

The words tease and immature both come to mind.

If you really want to go out with this person, offer two dates and times and ask her to choose the one that best fits her upcoming schedule.

If she cannot or is unwilling, well, move on to someone more committed and interested in you.

[nursefluffykins]

nurse agrees with doc on this one

[Kingstonmike]

Sorry, Mate. She's just using you.
Find a girl who will treat you right. This one ain't it...

[browneyedgirl]

I do agree she's not being mature. BUT to be fair - are you going out? or have you just told each other you liked each other but nothings come of it? Because if this is the case, she's really not obligated to you.