Kissing

[luvsyck]

Hey guys. I'm relatively new to this sex thing, and I'd like to know what it means when your guy doesn't tongue kiss you or gives your oral sex? Especially when you do it to him all the time. Help please.

[moose_hd]

It means that you probably don't know what he's thinking or feeling, so you should probably ask him about that.

[_sexybitch_]

does it matter if he doesn't kiss with tonguies? everyones different and has there own style.

[AverageJack]

I don't know why he doesn't give u oral sex... i love giving my girlfriend oral sex.
3 things that i personally like my girlfriend to do when she wants oral sex:
1. Ask me to do it
2. (while kissing or anything else) Pushes my head gently towards her vagina so i know what she wants.
3. Telling me in a demanding but sexy tone to give it to her

Maybe u should try these.

[Redrider557]

With him not kissing you with his tonge in ur mouth, i can agree with sexybitch on that about how everyone has there own styles but, I kno that when my girlfriend puts her tonge in my mouth more that i have mine in hers is more enjoyable for me...idk i just like it better... but i figure she likes it as much as i do so we kind of go back and forth... ask him about it maybe he likes ur tonge in his more...

on oral.... Before I ever did it i was kind of scared lol beacuse i didn't kno what to do or how it worked or anything... but with me thinking about it more and thinking about how i want to pleasure my g/f, I just tried it .... and she enjoyed it....

Ur b/f may just be nervous about trying that...did you ever ask him about it or bring it up before? Or know for a fact he has done it before? Nerves can get to a guy alot about anthing to do with women..

I hope i helped you with you question....

[curious Al]

Tongue kissing, like the other guys have said, is up to what the person likes. I some times vary between tongues and no tongues, depends on my mood.
Oral...well, alot of guys will confess that they were hesitant about giving oral to a girl for the first time (if it would be his first time) for some guys its not something they could just jump at others love it and would go straight at it. As many others would probably say, talk to him, ask him to do what you want and if he doesnt feel comfortable doing it try using flavoured gels or other products like that.

[wenpeek]

In my experience when a guy won't tongue kiss you, either before, during or after it means he doesn't view the experience as something personal enough to warrant something as intimate as kissing. He's just in it for self satisfaction. Unfortunately for them (the guys) they don't know what they are missing, because women view it as more of a stimulation and only enhances the act itself and makes her enjoy it more which in turn makes it much better for him as well.

Wendy Peek ~ Dallas, Texas

[dancingdoc2]

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I suggest asking him why he does or does not do certain things. He could be timid, lack self confidence, or, simply on a different time line than you.

[ialostsoul66]

Couldnt be put anymore clear.

Originally Posted by wenpeek

In my experience when a guy won't tongue kiss you, either before, during or after it means he doesn't view the experience as something personal enough to warrant something as intimate as kissing. He's just in it for self satisfaction. Unfortunately for them (the guys) they don't know what they are missing, because women view it as more of a stimulation and only enhances the act itself and makes her enjoy it more which in turn makes it much better for him as well.

Wendy Peek ~ Dallas, Texas

[glazedonut]

i'd have to say not to listen to what miss wendy is saying. my boyfriend never french kissed me before i asked him about it. as it turned out, the only experience he'd had with it was his ex literally shoving her tongue down his throat, which doesn't make someone wish for a repeat performance. while what miss wendy says CAN be true, the majority of the time it is not if the guy is sincere. how long have you been dating? has he for certain had experience before with giving head or french kissing? listen to the other responses and talk to your guy about it. if i hadn't talked to mine, he'd have never done either of those things for me, much less ended up loving to give me oral (and that's a quote!) have a good day.