Upset !! Ladies, please.

[fire1041]

I would like some opinions on an emotional issue. My wife is a clitoral response only kinda girl, she does not climax by penetration. About six months ago, I was giving her oral and she came, climaxed, orgasmed, whichever you prefer. After which, she told me That was the first time that had happened to her. I was ecstatic. This made me feel like a super lover. I felt I was able to give my wife something new. Time goes on and about 1 month ago we were talking about sex and her ability to climax. Foolishly , I asked her about ways she had been able to climax in the past. I had hoped to learn something that would help me please her more. She said , in other relationships she was able to climax by being on top, then mentioned climaxing by receiveing oral from a college boyfriend. I was floored, confused, I reminded her about the time she told me I was tha first to do this for her. She bagan to " back pedal " by saying she wasnt sure if she climaxed or not with the previous lover, which made me angry. The fact that she seemed to try and change her answer set me off. I dont understand why she would tell me this. Surely a woman knows her self and her past abilities well enough to recall what has and has not worked. I would think, being a clitoral cummer would make these experiences more vivid and less forgetable. Ladies, help me out. I dont understand how this could happen. Its really bugging me.

[Brandye]

We all "exaggerate" about sex. Men tend to try to be more experienced; women, less. Men to recollect, and repeat, the specifically sexual; women the romantic. Different things are important to men and women. You can recall specific moves; she likely remembers feelings. I have had wonderful sex with no climax and terrible sex with orgasm. She was trying to protect you a bit and likely does not have vivid recall of anything. Sexual memory is selective. Relax.

[fire1041]

God, im really starting to like you. You make me feel better with each post !!