long distance

[Vinny]

hi ppl its me again

im in a lonf distance relationship with a girl i met off the net. we decided 2 meet up just over a month ago and we hit it off right away and we been back and forth between eachothers houses ever since but the problem is when we are appart i miss her so much she is all i can think about. i love this girl she means the world 2 me. i really do think i have found my soul m8, but what i was wonderin is, i have been offered the chance 2 move in with her and her family depending on if i canget work their way. i am lookin 4 work anyway atm as im unemployed has anybody got any advice about this??? and i would like 2 hear if anybody has had the same experance as me and if it worked or didnt work 4 them.

Thx a mill peeps
Vinny

[Maribelle]

You sound young ... & my thought is that regardless of where you live education still needs to be a priority

[WallyLlama]

A lot depends on age... and distance... and a whole bunch of other things. Personally, I think a couple living with either's parents is a recipe for disaster. On top of that this is a fairly new relationship. You're unemployed...

I'd recommend a plan with some specifics.

[dancingdoc2]

There you have it. Find gainful employment, work on your education, then, begin saving money. When you have done these things, then you can think about having a closer relationship. If you want to move closer to her in order to find work or to go to school, then do so, but live independently.

[sexyboyLJ]

i say you should move in with your girlfriend im currently in a long distance relationship i see her virtually every weekend or school hols i miss her like hell wen i am not with her. so i know where your coming from, also why dont you try looking for a job in the industry you would like to get into or if your 16 to 19 try and Apperentship

[pozzolane]

I agree with sexyboy. I mean just do whatever you want right?? whether or not its the best thing just do it! I mean if you want to eat pizza for a whole year straight and gain 200 pounds then just do it! Everyone likes pizza don't they? It shouldn't affect your health too much!

Incase you can't tell I'm being very sarcastic about the brutal advice given by sexyboy.

You want help, read the posts further above by wally and doc. Just because it's what you want doesn't mean it's what's best for you.

Do the right thing and not just the easy thing.

[UKchic]

I've been in this situation b4, although it was my bf moving in with me n my mum n sister. It all worked out good and we're still together now, just living in our own place good luck to you, at the end of the day you will do what you want to do anyway, ao long as your still happy and if things start going down hill with this girl, maybe start flat/house huntin a bit sooner ?

good luck whatever you decide to do

[sakura]

just be happy you get to see them.

My boyfreind was living with me, and then had to move back home to england, im in canada, so now we can see eachother mabey twice a year.