Anal sex

[ncdanae]

Is it harmful for my partner to get off in my ass? This is our way of safe sex but how safe is it?

*confused*

[BigKahuna]

unless you have some major problems inside, in terms of pregnancy... it is quite safe... that being said, if semen comes in contact your vagina, there is a chance of pregnancy.

In terms of STDS and such, my understanding is that anal sex is way more risky for passing them.

[Brandye]

For heaven's sake, look around. There hundreds of posts on this. In Golden Posts, I did a rather complete medical description.

It is not very safe. Ejaculate in your vagina is about half absorbed through your vaginal walls and the other half drips out. In the anus, there is no absrorption so it all runs back out as the semen liquifies. That places sperm rich semen about an inch from your vaginal entrance. There are plenty of warm damp paths for the sperm to follow right into your vagina.

I identified a pregnant virgin (her hymen was completly intact) a few years ago. When she finally got to talking, this is how she got pregnant

[learning]

Apart from the risk of pregnancy (I agree with Brandye) it is more common and easier for STD's to be transmitted by anal sex. Wear a good condom, use plenty of lube and be gentle-that way both can enjoy!