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garter belts

hi,

this is my first time posting anything here .... i'm sorry if i'm not posting this question in the right place.

my boyfriend told me that he thinks garter belts are sexy, and i'd like to buy some and surprise him with them.  the problem is that i've tried them before, and i've never quite figured them out.  

i think it would be sexy to make love with him while i was wearing them, but here's my question:  if you start out with your thong on under the garter belt / stockings, then i don't know how to get the underwear off to have sex without unsnapping the belt from the stockings first, and then it seems strange and awkward to me to go trying to reattach everything while he waits for me with his patient erection....

and you can't really put the thong on *over* the garter belt... and i don't think i would just want to start out with no underwear on, because part of what turns him on is the unveiling, or rather, the initial veiling - things that are completely in-your-face don't seem sexy to him.  and i'm not sure crotchless undies are quite appropriate at this stage (same comment as for no undies).

this is a relatively new relationship and so at this point for me some subtlety is still precious.  

does anyone have any practical suggestions for me about how to wear the crazy thing???  

thank you,
cassie

i know what you mean, my g/f was wearing one of those at my bd as part of a gift to me, sure it was nice to see it on her, but when the action started it was a mess.
Maybe you can try one of those G string Bikini Panties that you can tie and untie on the sides, or even better, don't take it off at all, when the time comes, just move it aside and that's it. Hope that helps

Some good recommendations from TJdude but I would suggest that you simply do not put on any underwear. As you said it will only complicate things when you're both ready. And I find most crotchless underwear to be a real turn-off, something more fitting for a geriatric ward or overweight lesbians. Just have on the garter and harness neneath a dress or whatnot and it will achieve the desired reaction form your b/f. Personally, I love to grab the straps and harness as we hump in doggie while I place my left thumb up to the first knuckle into her anus as I pound away. S-W-E-E-T!

[QUOTE=Quote (Asscream Man @ July 30 2003,13:34)] And I find most crotchless underwear to be a real turn-off, something more fitting for a geriatric ward or overweight lesbians.  [/QUOTE]
Wow dude, please dont say stuff like that. Its a very derogatory statement about lesbians.

Anywho.
Some one said, pull them to the side, and thats a great idea.
They do sell pretty things where the panties actualy have side fastenings for exactly the dilemma you are expiriencing.
Adam and Eve sells them as well as Demask (least they used too) they both have . coms so look it up. It might be the perfect thing for you.
Live life.
Good luck.

I agree that crotchless garments are often unatractive (although I do have this really cool leather pair with a chain going down the middle...but I degress). But geriatrics and lesbians? I don't see the conection.

[QUOTE=Quote ]and i don't think i would just want to start out with no underwear on, because part of what turns him on is the unveiling, or rather, the initial veiling - things that are completely in-your-face don't seem sexy to him. and i'm not sure crotchless undies are quite appropriate at this stage (same comment as for no undies).[/QUOTE]
You could try wearing a skirt without underwear. That way, you could still have "the initial veiling," when the skirt is covering your pubic region, but the "unveiling"--lifting or taking off the skirt--would still come fairly easily.

If you are completely opposed to the idea of going without panties, a g-string may be your best bet. They are generally easy to pull to the side. The fastening panties Junocozmos mentioned sound even better, but I've never heard of these things. Could you show us a link to what you're talking about, Juno?

Yeah, lemme do my research and I'll post it.

Ok here are some links, if you cant find them in here...well...I'll just have to look harder. I get so many sex product and play wear catalogs!lol
Ok so here are the links. I'm pretty sure they're in the first link...but its such a great place I know you find something you like. Always worth it.
Adam and Eve

Or this one ( but I need to say this is a fetish gear site, so dont be suprised).
Demask

Good luck, lemme know if you find them, or anything you liked

[QUOTE=Quote ]Quote (Asscream Man @ July 30 2003,13:34)
And I find most crotchless underwear to be a real turn-off, something more fitting for a geriatric ward or overweight lesbians.  

Wow dude, please dont say stuff like that. Its a very derogatory statement about lesbians.[/QUOTE]

It wasn't intended to be derogatory, only that such a garmet would surely be useful to such people.

Original poster here.....

Thanks everyone for your ideas. I like the ones about the side fasten panties, and wearing no undies but with a skirt. I really appreciate everyone's suggestions! This site is really helpful.

Cassie

[QUOTE=Quote (Asscream Man @ July 30 2003,21:46)]It wasn't intended to be derogatory, only that such a garmet would surely be useful to such people.
[/QUOTE]
Thats ok, man. No harm done. I understand you were trying to be humorous. Its just that sometimes silly humor like that can be hurtful to the people you are using in your funnies.
Thanks though for clarifying your post.

No problem, Junocozmos.

Reasons why I think crotchless panties would be paticularly useful to the aged and lesbians:

1. Elderly don't have to worry about underwear interferring with their waste diapers.

2. Lesbians couples could actually share these garmets considering they're both females (don't females usually prefer such apparel?)

3. Overweight elderly or lesbians would appreciate the uncomplicated design that still offers support.

4. I'm sure that this final reason, EASY ACCESS, is appreciated by all who come into contact with such underwear.

As for cassie's original question.....the garter belt was around long before pantyhose.  It was what women had back then.
the stockings were separate and sold in pairs like mens socks.
Underwear was worn under them and the garterbelt was uncliped(like a bra) and stockings removed then underwear to have sex.

Somewhere along the way some women didin't wear the underwear...just the garter belt and stockings. Probably those who found their guys liked to see them in heels, stockings, and belt.(nothing else) or those anticipating having sex. Photographers of women for mens magazines presented images of girls in their stockings to eager male consumers.

There were some bikini underwear/thongs with fasteners on both sides which could be released for a quick removal when a girl was wearing a garter belt.   She could quickly remove her underwear for sex without having to remove the stockings etc.

In the seventies in Europe someone produced pantyhose with the crotch and back cut out and the sides cut out.  It made the pantyhose look like a one piece garterbelt-stockings, and the underwear could be worn over them.  I thought they were a nice idea but they didn't show up in the USA until the eighties when lingere seemed to undergo a revival.

I always thought the stockings with the seems up the back and sandal foot reinforcements of the toes and heels were the sexiest.  Some garter belts are just a one inch strap around the waist with straps to the top of the stockings and seem best protortioned to very petite girls.  The ones with the V shaped webbing with the straps to the stockings look better on fuller figured women.(my opinion)

What I like about the garterbelts are the variety of colors they come in and stocking colors to match.  All black is sexy,
red, pink, lavender, teal are favorites of mine.  Some wear a black belt with natural/or suntan color stockings and look good
as well.

I think most guys like to see the heels with the straps around the ankles with these outfits and consider it dead sexy.

Google Maple Drive Lingere

Google Maple Drive Lingere 2 footwear ankle view

Google image of panythose-garterbelt stockings

Google Maple Drive Camisol is an alternative to the garter belt. Wear with side clip underwear.

Look for bikini or thongs with the side realease fastenings.  You can get in and out of them easily. I've bought them for my g/f and they worked great for us.

In the last link photo of the model in the in the cami...her stockings are the lower rise lenght. The others models stockings tops rise to nearly the crotch. Most consider the high topped stockings to be better looking, like the model in the first link shows.

eDJ

Asscream Man, your a really funny guy. As an overweight bi-sexual female I sort of find your statements ridiculous but amusing none the less.

I wear garters and just wear the panties over them. I don't think it looks bad but that could be the outfit I wear. I do like those stockings that are crotchless (my man likes them) that have the strips going down the leg giving the illusion that they are gartars. Very comfortable and you don't have to worry about the gartar snapping off.

:laugh: well .. some garter belts you can wear with a little lacy skirt thing, then just not wear the thong at all and do the deed under the skirt... :;):

well .. some garter belts you can wear with a little lacy skirt thing, then just not wear the thong at all and do the deed under the skirt...

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