First of all I'd like to say I'm sorry if this is posted somewhere else. :(
Anyways, over the past year I have developed a horrible gag reflex for no reason at all. And it makes going down on my boyfriend almost impossible, and embarassing to say the least. So I was wondering if anyone had some tips to help repress the gag reflex? I know some of it is mind over matter but that really just doesn't help. Lol.
Try searching around, there are tons of posts that will give tips to help...
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_him/10844-deep_throat_101.html
just to get you started
I'm looking over the topic now, thanks. But most of it is talking about Deep Throating. I gag just by barely having his dick in my mouth.
I read on the net that using a toothbrush at the back out the tongue over & over will disengage the gag reflex. Does anyone know if that actually helps?
[quote=Sexless Loser;208138]I'm looking over the topic now, thanks. But most of it is talking about Deep Throating. I gag just by barely having his dick in my mouth.
I read on the net that using a toothbrush at the back out the tongue over & over will disengage the gag reflex. Does anyone know if that actually helps?[/quote]Have to relax your throat muscles. And do not hit the uvula. If old enough try a glass of wine. That helps....
Well there is one about blow jobs also. I thought the deep throat one talked about how sometimes the gagging can be psychological...kinda like painful penetration can sometimes be psychological. The body tenses up subconsciously since the first few times were painful and the body begins to expect it so gets "scared" and tenses.
Like sera said if you are of age, wine can help relax you
Does having something in your mouth or keeping your mouth flexed for awhile activate the gag reflex as well for you? It does for me, and I trained myself to get over it by holding a fat marker between my lips, which were positioned over the teeth like they would be when I'm giving a blow job, until I felt like gagging, and then pushing past that feeling. That might help you.
When you're giving a blow job, breathe deeply through your nose and tilt your head up, or protect the back of your throat with your tongue when he comes- so that he comes under your tongue, and the ejaculate doesn't hit the back of your throat.
My gag reflex is really bad, its gotten to the point where I gag when my mouth is somewhat dry. But it also goes off when I have something in my mouth for a long time like you stated. I wasn't able to finish the blowjob because I kept gagging to the point I felt like I was going to throw up.
I'm first going to try the toothbrush thing first and if that doesn't work I'll try your suggestion. Thanks JustAGirl. :)