My first topic!
First a little history...
When my wife and I were dating we kept sex to oral and manual since she was a virgin and wanted to keep it that way until she felt comfortable...
She loved this and had plenty of orgasms, however after the wedding night this started to change...all she seems to want is me, or my fingers inside her stroking her G-spot.
So I'm wondering, from the ladies, do you prefer one kind of orgasm over the other. On the other topics, the buzz-word is clit but seems as far as my wife is concerned "G" marks the spot...
I'm happy I can satisfy her but it seems strange to me she isn't intersted in her clit anymore.
Thanks all for your posts, we discussed it a bit and here is what I got.. I'm sure it sounds familiar...
Yes, they are different sensations to her and she does seem to prefer the G-spot orgasms for the for-seeable.
I read the golden posts regarding the g-spot Brandeye, and I don't see how I may be mistaking clitoral stimulation. You see ever since we "discovered" her g-spot I've adapted my technique to hit it consistantly. When fingering I use the middle finger, palm up and arched back, AWAY from the clitoris, hood and top of the labia. This is totally opposite of how she pleases herself which I will get to in a moment but she absolutely begs me for this.
When we have intercourse she also prefers positions where the pressure is one the front wall. Although missionary does get her off too and that is probably some clitoral mixed in since I use my hips with that in mind.
As for oral she says she is sure she would still like it she's just not in the mood to recieve; is too tired or distracted to fully enjoy it. She will let me know when she feels she might like some.
This thread started because I thought I suddenly was doing foreplay with her clit all wrong or something. She seemed to get bored if I concentrated on her clit. However when she uses her vibrator it's right on her clit. I guess the answer is she's just not into that kind of foreplay for now.
For me, g-spot and clitoral stimulation are very different feelings. They are both great though! The best thing is to have both stimulated at the same time. I like to be licked first and then have sex with him rubbing my clit while he's inside me. That's the best!
sorry im a bit late with this
but i asked my girlfriend which felt better and she said she couldnt really say because apparantly, its like a different kind of pleasure, hehe
I am not certain you are reading things accurately. The G-Spot is wonderful but a rather sophisticated and difficult point of stimulation. If you read around the Golden Posts and other spots on this site, you will find that it cannot even be proven to exist.
It is entirely possible that what you are now doing is moving the clitoral hood and stimulating that organ more than you realize. If your question is really whether oral is still enjoyable for her, ask her.
You should both be happy thatt your sex life is generally satisfactory.
You got to know that all women are different and all orgasms for us are different. Some only like the clit and others like your wife prefer the G-spot where as others like it another way.
For myself I prefer clit orgasms but have had them other ways like through the g-spot. I think its a matter of preference really and what feels the best.
I say if she is cumming and is happy then do it the way she likes. Just let her know you are willing to do whatever she likes anytime she might want to explore or do something new and different.