Well since no one else is giving their opinions. I Will.....

I am no prude but found it "crude" ....
Educational? nope
link to porn ? Yes

lmao..when was this video made? the 90's? I mean what the hell is that shirt the guy is wearing lol

I found it to just be downright silly. Not particularly realistic either. Very porno-esque moans for the chick as well..

Which brings me to this question.. Do any of you ladies actually make sounds like that? I mean, I'm generally kind of quiet, but even when I'm intensely excited I don't have the ability to actually make a lot vocal noises.., I have soft little moans but its more like my throat is all caught up and all I"m doing is a whole lot of extra breathing, much less make heavy moaning noises. But maybe thats just me, I don't know.

how about i pm you a link to a real instructional video
on g-spot stimulation then you can see what a pathetic video you posted lol

Hmm I must just be a quiet one..my poor boyfriend, really missing out there then..

As far as the instructional quality of the video..um, about as good as any regular frat boy I know could come up with. The "directions" while not necessarily wrong..fairly amateur? I guess is how I would describe it. I dunno..I guess I just find it more impressive when a guy can stimulate the g-spot with his cock.

How has your question not been answered?
Are you asking about its authenticity in reference to "is this an actual couple making a legit demonstration" or "is this guy explaining it right"? I think we've answered both those questions..so if you are asking something that we just don't get, please do clarify.

I agree that nutty should also post this other video for all to see as well. Then we can do a real comparison.

lol hold your horses man .. its the weekend.. I have much more to do then
be on here;):p:D

Well, my description of amateurish applies to his instructions as well as the quality of the video. I would say no, the finger "techniques" he uses are not wrong. However, I have found that there is more to it than what he describes...more gradually building up in terms of pressure, speed, etc. Also you have to take into account the whole "different strokes for different folks" concept. I personally require more of a delicate touch until I am right on the edge of orgasm than would be given with some of the things he does. I kind of liken it to giving head, yeah there are a few things that we all know are good to do...but being a little creative (as long as you aren't doing something stupid thats going to be painful for the receiver) is usually helpful as well. Though granted there is less room for creativity when you've just got a couple fingers in a small space to work with. To be honest, I'm not sure exactly what my boyfriend is doing down there sometimes, I just know that it feels good and that its more than just two motions repeated over and over. Given the differences in women's preferences, I don't think following instructions is as effective as trial and error..so maybe yeah this guys "instructions" could be a good starting point for someone who has never touched a vagina before..but little more than that.

I also find that being on my knees facing him in the cowgirl sort of position would do absolutely nothing for me as it doesn't allow my legs to start off relaxed which is absolutely necessary for me to reach orgasm, so no, definitely not the best position for g-spot stimulation. but that may not be true in other women's cases.

Also I find it hard to believe that after what seems to be complete lack of foreplay other than some brief analingus, this girl is anywhere near ready to really have g-spot stimulation be very effective. But again, that could just me. I do take quite a while to get warmed up. I've also not been experiencing g-spot orgasms for a very long time. But still from what I've gathered speaking to other women, having his fingers up your cooch when you are only mildly turned on isn't particularly pleasant.

[QUOTE=wet_suit_one;229376]I think that men are better served by the instructions in the other video though as having a male speak to them gives the video more credibility and more likelihood to really listen, which I'm glad to see they did have in this video too.

Cheers![/QUOTE]

Why the heck does it serve men better to listen to a males interpretation of what he THINKS is happening to her instead of a woman's description of what IS happening to her for any reason other than ego.

Seems that most society tends to pay attention to a woman's perspective of sex rather then a man's because from a look at the surface a guy orgasms easy enough and then is done. Women have the depth of many different stimulations and orgasm multiple times in sessions. Yes, it is known that men are capable of the same and can have many different stimulations as well, but most often people view the pleasure and accomplishment of a "good" sexual experience with that of a satisfied "woman". My bias is the same way, I am the type of guy that receives great pleasure from satisfying my woman. I prolong my orgasm to ensure a wonderful time for her. Is this bad? I think not, but for many it is the complete opposite. Many men have sex for their satisfaction and then are done.

Sort of a side question. Who do you think does the most "work" in the bedroom? Men or women?
My experience : men, not an ego answer, but just from what I done. It seems that we do the most work between the heating up of the woman, teasing, full body touching, oral, fingering, then lots of work with the thrusting.

I do think that my perspective is probably also impacted by the fact that being able to have g-spot stimulation without it feeling terribly uncomfortable is a fairly recent thing. Perhaps woman who have been experiencing it for a longer period of time do find that they can reach orgasm with less foreplay and in a greater variety of positions, etc. But the opinions I expressed are based on my own experience and so while they are ligitimate in my case, they certainly do not apply across the board. Though I do feel that communication with the particular woman you are with is worth more than any video.

Also I think I find the woman's reactions in Nutty's video to be more realistic, much less put on.

[QUOTE=bluetide76;229401]
Sort of a side question. Who do you think does the most "work" in the bedroom? Men or women?
My experience : men, not an ego answer, but just from what I done. It seems that we do the most work between the heating up of the woman, teasing, full body touching, oral, fingering, then lots of work with the thrusting.[/QUOTE]

Yeah I also think men do more work than women, though I am quite sure that it also depends on a case to case basis and who is confident enough to take the lead. Traditionally men are the dominant and take the lead, lots of women don't like being in control which leads to the men doing more work. But there are certainly exceptions, in my last relationship the girl did at least as much as me during foreplay, if not more.

If the man is doing more work than the woman, than A) she is unexperienced and rather than just letting her lay there, he should probably start giving her a little instruction..get the girl moving ffs, tell her what you want B) she has some hang ups about sex either due to her upbringing, religion, abuse, or just society's treatment of women in regards to sex in general (this being VERY common, how much can we blame the girl really..I mean how easy can it be to be actively participant in sex if for the whole time the thought "am I a whore for doing this?" is running through the back of your mind) or C) she is just a lazy lover and you should probably go find someone else to have sex with

And I might add that I have had my fair share of lazy male sex partners. I just didn't keep any of them around long enough to complain about it much.