I'm not trying to knock medicine, and I'm not arguing with you that it may be difficult or impossible locate physically on a disected cadaver. But, you say that you have a G spot, right? I know I have one. It's a special area at a certain location that feels good when stimulated. Do we really need the collected medical wisdom to tell us more? It might be interesting, but... my point is, it's there. Maybe not every woman has it, I dunno. Then again, not every woman ejaculates, but that doesn't mena that doesn't happen. What is referred to as the G spot is found in a great many women, and I'm sure that there are a great many more who have this erogonous zone but do not put it into use, just as there are many women who never experience orgasm. My point is, just because medicine can't prove it YET doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

OK, Browneyedgirl, you are now more certain than the collected medical wisdom of the world. More women would like to know this and many pathologists can give up their search.

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Emily11 that is not urine - you were about to ejaculate! Let it go, next time!

Brandye- sorry hun but not quite so - check your Grey's anatomy. There are glands in that area and that urge to urinate isn't what it seems. That's why "only a few drops". There's not a lot of room down there so everything's packed in rather tightly so it is easy to mistake one for the other. But as one who does squirt - there's nothing urine about it.

and that is AAAAwwwesome!!! I would love it if my wife could do that.

HOLD ON!!!!!

Most women who even locate their G-Spots (and that is not many of us) usually find the extreme need to pee during exploration and play. The reasons is simply that stimulating the anterior wall of the vagina about two inches in means that you are massaging the urethra. This makes us need to pee - or at least feel like it. As Eva and I were looking for ours (and that took hours over a few sessions) we were constantly running to the loo and producing a few drops. This is normal until we learn how the whole thing works. If you change partners, you may go through this again.

There is not an automatic relationship between G-Spot and female ejaculation. Some do both, someone or the other and most women never ejaculate and have never found their G-Spot. Read the posts Luvs recommends.

Feeling like you need to pee is totally normal. Relax and the orgasm will come to you. :)

No, you check your anatomy. The glands of Bartholin and Skene's glandsare in the area. Each of these, especially Skene's, are often cited as the source of the ejaculatory fluid in women. The fact remains that rubbing the anterior wall of the vagina is compressing, expanding and displacing the urethra. This gives the urge to pee.

Re-read: I have not suggested that female ejaculation is urine, although many doctors do say that it is.

The G-Spot has NEVER been demonstrated empirically. I am glad I have found mine but that does not prove its existence and the responsible literature still debates the very existence of the G-Spot. Alternative explanations are that there is also a ligament behind that wall and when moved it stimulates us sexually; the stimulation of the urethra, once mastered, could cause orgasm; and, movement of any part of the genitalia could be moving the hood over the clitoris.

Researchers have examined the whole area by eye, touch and scalpel. No one can definitively and objectively identify the G-Spot.

So you are saying that you have found something that does not exist?

btw it is the Biden glands.

I think Brandye is trying to say that just because 1 person finds something that feels like the "g-spot" doesnt mean it exists, it could just be a personal thing that they like, rather than something built into every woman

Interesting. I have retained all of my textbooks from my days in med school. I have checked "biden glands" in three languages with no success. Google keeps showing up a US Senator and a veterinarian site had some allusion to glands in a duck's bill. My references, again in three languages, show the Glands of Bartholin and Skene's Glands but nothing about Biden.

Yes, I am saying something like what you describe. There is a body of anecdotal evidence that women experience gratification from stroking the area described as the G- Spot. That goes back at least hundreds of years. When Dr Graefenberg described it in the 1920s, he set off vast research world-wide. AAlthough some doctors (such as I) are willing to accept it on faith or experience, no scientific study has ever located the G- Spot. Some describe it as spongy. Neither I nor my pertner have a spongy spot on the anterior walls of our vaginas. We each do experience stimulation as a result of manipulating that spot. Neither of us have ever had any man or other woman able to "find" ours.

Anecdotally, I do not question the existence of the G-Spot; scientifically, it has been neither proven nor disproven.

Given that perhaps ten percent (a guess) of us have experienced G-Spot stimulation to orgasm, you could argue that some of us have them and some do not. I do not know what the answer is but I have only been practicing medicine for twenty years and I am not a gyn. Eva is a mid-wife and probably knows her way around the female reproductive tract better than I.

Huh... the G spot definitely exists. There are tons of things that exist that medicine and science cannot prove, like aliens. Just because it hasn't been "discovered" doesn't mean it isn't there. Like, before Colombus stumbled on America, the land existed, it just didn't exist to Europe. To say that the G spot doesn't exist is like discovering America but then saying "Whoops, it doesn't fit on the map, I guess it's India." There are a lot of girls out there who are willing to testify to the existence of the G spot. In most women it is located 1.5-2 inches up on the front wall of your vagina.

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