Hi! I cant bring my self to let my boyfriend give me a g-spot orgasm...
I realy want to but im afraid because ive never had one. I won't no how it feels. I hear its meant to be really good. Bu the part i don't get is where its meant to feel like your bladder is burst or something like that
CAN YOU PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE BECAUSE MY BOYFRIEND REALLY WANYS ME TO DO THIS ONE
"I NO YOU'LL LIKE A G-SPOT ORGASM"This is what he said...
HELP ME PLEASE:( :( :(
How would he know??
Besides, not all women are able to have one.
Dont do anything you aren't comfortable with, but its nothing you should be afraid of.
What I find strange is that I know I'm capable of having a Gspot orgasm, but have never actually had one.
I know because I've dreamed about it and the sensation is just as I would expect it!
Not all women are capable of having g-spot orgasms, though.
Just make sure you go to the bathroom before you try it, and go for it. You'll feel it build, and just let it go (or cum, as the situation may be! lol).
You can find out more about them here: http://www.caitlainscorner.com/content/view/203/70/
But I'm to afraid to because i feel like its not right! Id like to no how it feels... Im dying to have one! I no its meant to feel like ur goin go to the toilet or need to but it hasnt happened yet and i know id be able to do one
Whats the g-spot meant to feel like inside your body when your boyfriend is fingering you or having sex with you????:)XxX
Well, I know my wife can have them. I know because I've given them to her. It has only been done recently. We tried for a long time and I finally found it.
Now, I know every woman is different, but I'll tell you what I feel when I'm stimulating my wife. When I slide my fingers into her vagina, I press upwards and apply pressure to her pelvic bone. While I apply pressure, I usually feel a small string-like thing. I'm not sure if this is her urethra or her g-spot, but i keep stroking, and applying pressure. In doing this, my wife also enjoys a small clit vibrator(I add this as you may enjoy it as well). I also feel the area around the string-like thing grow and get a bit bigger and spongier. I keep stimulating it and holding the small vibrator to her clit. She usually gets off this way.
Now, you say it feels like you have to go to the bathroom while you do this. My wife felt the same the first time I found it. We stopped, and she went pee. She came back, and still felt it, just not as bad as she did. Even now, after we have done it a few times, she still feels it. I'm guessing it is a normal feeling. I do know that when she does have an orgasm when I stimulate her g-spot, she tends to squirt/leak a small amount of fluid. After she has gone through her "recovery period", she does not feel the urge to urinate. If you feer that you are going to pee, go before you start and then lay some towels down, and just go with it. If you try this alone, you may be more comfortable with the pee feeling than if you were with your partner.
Well, I hope I helped a little. Good luck, and remember, have fun with it.
> [Brandye} "There is a Golden Post on this from long ago. Let's deal with some conceptions and misconceptions. There is no general agreement that the G-Spot exists. Anatomically, it does not exist but many women report similar reaction to stimulation, usually by finger, of the spot on the front side of the vagina a bit above the pubic bone. There are tons of sites that advocate and give great testimony on the wonders of the G-Spot and female ejaculation - another controversial topic.
The G-Spot does not "develop." It is, possibly, a spot where underlying tissue, especially a ligament that runs along there, being manipulated causes stimulation. Another explanation is that it stimulates the urethra as well and this eventually becomes very stimulating. I do not believe the G-Spot actually exists but I am glad mine has been found!!
With a man, it has never worked. My girlfriend and I (both medical professionals) spent hours, on many occasions, trying to convince ourselves the G-Spot did or did not exist. We each leapt up frequently to run to pee. A few drops, usually. The G-Spot is a sophisticated concept that requires patience, skill and not a little faith to find. See the thread in the Golden Posts."
Please read the following threads with replies from Brandye and myself:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/new_sex/15789-gspot_question.html?highli...
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/sexual_health_women/15353-female_sexual_...
Please read Brandye's first two replies.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_her/17724-mbating_question.html...
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_her/17360-interesting_spot.html...
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/sexual_health_women/16653-g-spot_rocks_g...
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_her/16377-o_man_hmm_i_think_i_h...
Read my reply
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_her/15240-gspot_over_clitoris.h...
For more information, do an advanced search on the Board and also a search of the Internet.
*sigh* Perhaps more studying, dancingdoc? There really is a G-Spot. It is on the roof of the vagina approx 2 inches in from the opening and lies, generally speaking, beneath the root of the clitoris. Your partner should be feeling for a sort of washboarding area. Palm upwards with fingertips curved upward - gently stroke and caress! Feels WONDERFUL!
"I do not believe the G-Spot actually exists but I am glad mine has been found!!"
How can you find something that does not exist?? Shame on you!
That feeling of you are going to urinate is - she's trying to ejaculate! LET HER! Jeez! the 'Holy Grail' of sex and you're wasting it!
Men have one as well - it is his prostate gland.
I also read somewhere that on every women the Gspot might not contain as many nerve endings. So for some women, the spot might feel AMAZING!!! for others, its just "Eh".
Not so much the number of nerve endings but their sensitivity.