With any popular messageboard, indeed, any topic, there will be repetition. That's just the nature of things.

I was just answering questions and putting in my opinion. I see nothing wrong with that; sure, maybe the info is in a sticky but the point of a discussion board is simply that - discussion. Surely with 5 000 posts you have repeated yourself once or twice as well.

The fact that you take objection with what I say is fine. Hostility is not; regardless of who we are, and what we do, we all deserve common courteousy. Even on a messageboard.

I do not claim to have much technical knowledge. I do know I'm pretty good in the bedroom; that's about it. I'm just trying to help other people get past their sticking points.

We, in the medical community, are not even convinced the G-Spot exists. There is a major school of thought that the clitoris is the sexually sensitive part and massaging what we call the G-Spot moves tissue that stimulates the clitoris more delicately and leads to more powerful orgasm.

When my g/f and I set out to locate our G-Spots many years ago, it took much experimentation, many trips to the loo and hours of trying. We each succeeded but still do not know whether the G-Spot is real. I have serious doubts that a penis can actually stimulate the G-Spot.

Unlike Brandye, and with apologies to her, I have no medical training, yet I can orgasm from stimulation of the clitoris, the G-Spot (of its existence I have no doubt), and the posterior fornix. Not only do I know it can be done because of my own personal experience orgasming, but also from having taught men who then go out and teach other women and so on. Within the swing community there is not only no doubt but men with the right skills are in high demand.

Yes, if the man knows what he is doing, and the lady is both relaxed and aroused, G-Spot caressing using the penis is possible. G-Spot orgasms vary in intensity just as all other orgasms do.
Yes, you feel like you want to urinate. When you get more experienced you will learn to tell the difference between feeling like you want to ejaculate and the feeling you have to urinate - there is a subtle difference.

The G spot is definitely real, and it is definitely possible to stimulate using the penis. Mine actually has a rather fortunate shape in that regard (it curves upward) so it is pretty handy for stimulating the G Spot. However, even if its straight there are different positions and so forth you can experiment with to really hit it.

Try doggie. The girl can shift around to have the penis stimulate her wherever she wants. Her on top can also work for the same reason.

Well, Dan, in addition to crapping all over the Board with insipid comments for your first day (nine in a first day is a lot), you have revolutionised medical knowledge.

Perhaps you should read around a bit. You may even learn a few things.

In my experience with my girl, it most def exists. Although I am not able to stimulate as well from intercourse. She prefers my fingers with hitting that area strong and gets massive orgasms when I mix that and oral. It just depends on the person I guess. Different people react differently to things. I agree with brandey though that certain people prob dont feel it at all.

Brandye,

I don't think my comments were "insipid" - I'm just trying to make a contribution here and help where possible, based on my own experiences and knowledge. Is such a hostile and aggressive attack really necessary?

Every other poster here has said it exists as well, yet I do not see you attacking them.

I believe it was you that said that the "G spot" is simply more direct stimulation of clitoral tissue. That may very well be the case. However, what we call it etc, to me, doesn't make much of a difference so long as we can help improve people's understandings of things and make them have better sex. Because, after all, isn't that one of the major plusses of this site?

I am not a medical expert or even know a bit about it and I am certainly not trying to say I do. I apologize if that has been misconstrued. All I am saying is that there are numerous experiences (just look around on this board) of the G spot existing and being a key to making girls feel good.

Frankly I don't see why you are getting so angry with me over nothing. I am sharing my opinion; nothing more. And I certainly have not stated that I am an expert or even learned on the theory in any way. Just sharing what I personally have found to be my experience.

I too don't understand why Brandye took the stance she did over this but never mind, that is not the point of this thread.

I think the important thing is that, from my sexperience with my wife, there does seem a "spot" that does cause intense pleasure. It may well be connected to the tissues of the clitoris as Brandye says but it is still a "spot" that works for us.
There are many areas on the human body that casue sensations in other parts of the body if you stimulate them. Perhaps this is one of them. Perhaps it's even psychological but does that matter as long as it works for you!

No offense to anyone, but brandye has every right to go off it she dang well pleases. =p She has more then earned that right and the strength behind her logic. She is not only well educated in all these areas, but addresses numerous topics and problems that people have. I dont know about daniel's posts, but the point of the forum is a mix of personal experience and educating those in need. If a well trained medical opinion is made and then a common everyday person shoots it down without giving any due cause, then it is misleading to the OP. Plus she can yell at me anyday =).

Id like to find more about the posterior fornix, anyone have some links or information on that? I been trying to improve angles in sex and give it a good mix for stimulation. Thanks.

The trouble begins with the fact that thisinvolves little more than nerve endings - there is "organ" per se that one can find through dissection etc and the G-Spot and posterior fornix are not like your big toe - out where they can readily be seen. No disrespect for Brandye was ever even attempted. Certainly not!

The G-Spot is an area that feels like "washboarding" in the roof of the vagina just about 2 to 3 cm in from the opening.

The posterior fornix is that area of the vagina, when fully expanded from arousal, below the cervix. I have no idea how a man would know he's "gotten it" except by her reaction. Pressing downward, go in full depth, and slowly caress back and forth while continuing tpo press downward, without coming out more than half way, until she orgasms. That is the best I can tell you.

Stimulating both or either areas can induce female ejaculation in some women.
Each woman has her own "set of instructions" - please ask for directions if you get lost.

Would there be a slight mix of pleasure and pain in that area(fornix)? I have gone rather deep and pushed down and grinded with my hips and she said it felt really good, but had a mix of pain there. She wanted more and said it was amazing, but just wondering.

Hi Bluetide,

I think you will find that I actually agreed with Brandye with her description of the "G" spot and orgasm. I fail to see why she took the stance she did which was not regarding the G spot conversation at all. I got a similar response from another member on here to a thread I created and it just knocks you back becuase it is non-construcutive and dismisive

With my history here, I see no need to apologize. There is a very lengthy sticky on what we know and do not know about the G-Spot. There is my reasoning.

As for the insipid remark, very few people make nine posts on their first outing. And these were all reptitious of posts that are many places.

Nothing wrong with posting. Just do not inundate us with with redundancies before reading around the place adequately.

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I have trouble telling this difference, and end up not enjoying sex because this sensation makes me scared that I'll actually need to urinate. It sounds stupid, I realise. Is there anything I could do?

Bella,

You would not believe the time and effort my g/f and I put into finding our G-Spots. First you need a patient and understanding partner (or either gender). And then you need the comfor to screm "I have to pee!" It took us hors and we are both medical professionals.

Remember also that although most people posting in this thread are saying thast it exists, it is doubtful that more than ten percent of all women have actually experienced orgasm from G-Spot stimulation. Work at it; it is worthwhile.

There are two reasons for that 10% - 1. incompetent assistance and 2. lack of knowledge.

What you can do - RELAX and just let it go.