okay first, no offense and its totally off the question but its very irritating to read double spaced like 6 lines for one sentence,
keep it together so its easier to read. but im just saying..

ANYWAY

the g spot is a sort of a rough patch located in finger tip length (almost sure)
on the inner top of the vagina.

wouldnt know when its hit though, cuz its neevr happened to me :(

The Grafenberg spot aka the G-spot is located a few inches in the vaginal opening. If you were lying on your back, have your partner insert a finger or two and stroke the upward side facing the ceiling) of the vaginal wall. Have your partner (or try yourself) move the pads of their finger tips a SMALL amout to the left and the right keeping the pressure in a upward stroking manner. Not deep against the cervix but rather the top wall of the inner vagina. It has a "spongy" feel and is about the size of a lima bean. When stimulated the area becomes becomes a bit harder rather then spongy.

When this area is stroked you will know it, you may feel some pressure in the bladder but it is mild and will disappear quickly. This is due to the urethra and the neck of the bladder being in close proximity. If you can orgasm during intercourse, the best way I can describe it is this will send you to the moon. If he can position himself well while inside of you, the head of his penis can stroke the area very well. It takes some work and some time.

Tell your partner "palm upwards, middle and index fingers together, bend fingertips up and gently stroke in a 'calling the dog' motion".