Okay so tonight I was having sex, she came, and I was still going. I was just focusing right on the entrance, approximately where the g-spot should be. And she was getting that urge to pee...well I tried to get her to relax, and when she would try to relax, she would get nausea...her exact words.
"It's making me sick. Like I relax my muscles, and i feel it move up my stomach and like into my throught. It makes me nauseous like I need to throw up..."
Any ideas? Could it just be that she perhaps really had to pee and that was her bodies way of saying it? or were we doing something wrong?
EEK I know you have some sort of idea....:D
1. The G-Spot, if it exists, is not right at the entrance.
2. Any probing around the female genitals causes irritation of the urethral entrance and feels like we need to pee.
3. Some women do feel nauseous after orgasm. That is a whole bunch of squeezing going on in the lower abdomen.
Ducy......WHAT do you do to these women? :)
Maybe it was too much irritation happening near the urethra...the stomach thing can be anything...from lying flat and having a sort of reflux to stimulating the wrong cranial nerve...
Ummm...I give them pretty good sex. (notice not great...cuz im not too vain lol)
Im sorry brandy i wasnt right at the entrance, I was inside about where the gspot should be...Judgin by the feel i was probably inch or two in lol.
Are you SURE you're offering sex to the right women, Ducy? You keep picking these inexperienced, or at last inhibited, ones for some reason.
Stop it.
In an inch or two sounds about right but you may have been pressing upward too hard - gently, gently does the trick. It could be a case of her being un-used to that particular bit of stimulation (false signal). Try it again. Remember that the area you want feels like a washboard when manually explored.
Well...I know (or am 99% sure) that it was her gspot because I noticed it while fingering her. She is fairly experienced, when she takes control it was like :eek: :) but I like being a bit more dominant in the bedroom.
IDK about inhibited...I mean nervous perhaps cuz we've only had sex a few times, and was afraid of wetting herself...maybe I should just find someone packed with years of experienced...but idk many 30 year olds.
I'm sure you explained about female ejaculation?
yes actually I told her about it, and she was still a bit nervous about it.
Ooookay. Seems she still has lingering issues with her sexuality then in spite of the fact that men truly enjoy a woman's unbridled sexuality - esp if she's with him at the time of the unbridling.