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Fucking a girl while she's sleeping

I have the greatest urge to fuck my girl while she's sleeping,catch her while she's sleeping on her stomach and just fuck her from the back....has anyone ever tried fucking a girl while shes sleep?if so how was it?did she wake up moaning or anything?

Oh great! So make a plastic doll out of her? Yeah, that's showing her how much you care about her as a person. By all means, fuck her when she's not participating, not enjoying, and may not even be aware of what you're doing.

That will really make her feel safe with you.

"How can I trust him now?"

To make the point even more clear to you, think about how you would feel if you suddenly awoke to find her anally doing you during your sleep with a strap-on.

I do not awaken gently. And I generally dislike rear entry. And it is hard to sneak it in. Try meeting her more likely desire of awakening to cuddling rather than skewering.

From what I've been able to gather, many women like having sex while they're sleeping; at least on the edge of it, or perhaps drifting off during.

I didn't read "fuck her from the back" to mean anal, necessarily.

[QUOTE=headhead;248121]From what I've been able to gather, many women like having sex while they're sleeping; at least on the edge of it, or perhaps drifting off during.
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Drifting off during sex? lol must be damn boring sex if it makes you fall asleep:eek:

[QUOTE=jimydon;248109]I have the greatest urge to fuck my girl while she's sleeping,catch her while she's sleeping on her stomach and just fuck her from the back....has anyone ever tried fucking a girl while shes sleep?if so how was it?did she wake up moaning or anything?[/QUOTE]

my Ex husband done that with his arm around my neck... I woke up screaming unable to move...
That was classed as rape.....

Yep! And that's one reason why he's an EX-husband.

So, if you do NOT want to be an EX-boyfriend, I'd strongly encourage you to NOT believe all of those fantasies in your head, or in other people's heads.

Sometimes fantasies are best left being fantasies. This is one of those.

If you're hellbent on doing it, try talking to her. Maybe she'd like it, maybe she doesn't want you to do it. Regardless, respect her wishes.

ME and my boyfriend do this all the time. Its an amazing fantasy. But check with her. Make sure she wouldn't get mad if you tried it.

My partner and I talked about it long before it happened, but when it did, it was great to slowly wake up to the feeling! Key being that we talked about it, so I knew what was going on when I woke up.

Well I will have to plead guilty of sex while sleeping.... I used to wake my ex-girlfriend up by giving her a senual body massage... I massaged her from head to toe then I would concentrate on her butt.. I would massage her really well gently working my hands between her legs until i could massage her labia..... I would never have sex with her while she was asleep... However it was very erotic to notice how turned on she became...We always have great sex when she woke up.

[QUOTE=headhead;248121]From what I've been able to gather, many women like having sex while they're sleeping; at least on the edge of it, or perhaps drifting off during.

I didn't read "fuck her from the back" to mean anal, necessarily.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=nuttychick;248122]Drifting off during sex? lol must be damn boring sex if it makes you fall asleep:eek:[/QUOTE]

I've never had sex start while I was sleeping but I have drifted off during it. I've had the most incredibly strong orgasms on these occasions, most likely because I was so relaxed. Trust me, it definitely was not boring.

Sorry, there's still something very CREEPY about it.

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;248165]Sorry, there's still something very CREEPY about it.[/QUOTE]

Some necromaniacs start out this way...

Do you mean "necrophiliacs?" Necromania is the same thing as thanatomania, which is just obsession with death, dying, and corpses.

This has been another episode of "Vocabulary You Probably Didn't Care About" with your host, Browser...

Having sex with someone while they are sleeping without previously getting their consent screams (atleast to me) rape. Its just really, REALLY creepy. I personally would be pretty freaked out to wake up to my boyfriend hammering me from behind...

Xkatex, you're right on: it is rape unless you receive consent.

[QUOTE=Browser;248178]Do you mean "necrophiliacs?" Necromania is the same thing as thanatomania, which is just obsession with death, dying, and corpses.

This has been another episode of "Vocabulary You Probably Didn't Care About" with your host, Browser...[/QUOTE]

Yes, that is what I meant. I only realized once I was on my way for the day that I had used the wrong word, but was unable to change it due to the restrictions on the internet where I was. I do, however, care about vocabulary.

Start foreplay when a girl is sleeping is fine. But unless she is hot and ready its no fun. You can start your foreplay, licking , kissing, when she is sleeping. Slowly she will wake up and start responding you. Then you both canenjoy. But otherwise its a rape.

I agree it would scare me a little if I woke up to him having sex with me. But, I have awoken to my husband going down on me. I though I was dreaming at first but then it started feeling a little more real and I realized what he was doing. I didn't mind that, I loved it!

I have woken him up to a bj or riding him. The first time he got scared and though someone else was in the house. Then he realized it was me. (LOL) Now, he falls asleep really fast to see what I will do next.

Agreed, sania. But always, Always, ALWAYS check with her first.

Ur sad!

My son's father used to do this to me. I found this to be a total violation. And whats worse is that he knew I was a very heavy sleeper. At the time I was working and attending school full time. When I would realize that he was fucking me and told him to stop to tried to push him off me he would hold my arms tight against my back (like when ur being arrested) and tell me to wait. In fact I believed my squirming aroused him even more! I hated him for that. I told him it was rape what he was doing and he would laugh and say no its not cuz ur my gf. But gf or wife or fwb no man should jus take it upon himself and fuck a woman while she is most vulnerable like that. It's disgusting. Now my bf now if he gets the urge he will gently wake me but stroking my back or kissing my body and ask can he and i nod and continue to sleep. But damn dont be fucking barbaric and start pumpin away while she is sleep u disgusting jerk!

I say don't do it with a talk about it! if you wanna test the field surprise her with a morning of oral. Make her happy!

The guys still are not GETTING this. They don't feel it, ladies. Ty, nyckitty for your story - please tell me you stomped on him HARD for this afterwards.

How would you feel guys, if every morning you woke up with a stretched and sore rectum? Think you'd wonder a bit? Perhaps ask that cute girl beside you what happened? "Oh Bruno stopped by and he had this wonderful joke."

i would suggest you ask your gf first without permision she may freak out and not trust you i agree with you evilevilkitten

Courts in most civilized nations have held that marital rape is rape. If he knows you are against it and continues whilst you sleep, that meets any civil definition of rape. He is a criminal. Period.

My earlier comment about simply not wanting to wake up with a penis in me was predicated upon a normal relationship. The descriptions have now gone beyond into descriptions of rape.

wow, this topic has took a wrong turn...lol I've always wanted to try this w/my Wife. I've talked to her about it a few times, but we still haven't agreed or discussed it further lately. I'll be sure to ask her, but wait asking her is better for the respect level, but what about the surprise factor? Thats why guys do it in the first place, because of the surprise factor that we're looking for when our partner awakes... But like I said, asking first isn't hard.

No, it has not taken a "wrong" turn. BadCat is right on in saying the GUYS simply do not get it. Women live with the constant threat of rape. No, we do not think of it all the time, but it is the most common violent crime in the world and women are the only (rare exceptions such as prison) victims.

When totally unexpected, this "surprise" lies somewhere between unwanted sexual advance and rape. Every woman in the world has had experience on that continuum and most of us do not wish to replicate it.

Surprise! Your worst fear in life is coming true!

Note to Ob: given your first post, you have more serious stuff to talk about.

i recently went camping the withe GF, and we laughed and talked and stargazed it was amazing. she drifted off at some point, with me massaging her, and holding her.Me being the horn dog that i was didn't notice, so i continued to advance, and she, me not knowing she was out like a light seemed to welcome it *moans, shifting or so i thought, for better positioning*.She didn't come too till i started eating her out >.< she was a little freaked, but realized it was me, and told me that she had be completely asleep, to which i thought she was joking. We had some of the best sex that night, but it reminded me that i want to be sure that she's willing and awake before anything sexual happens, if your into this girl or love her, you DON'T want to be the one that hurts or scars her emotionally, and that WILL be what happens if she sees what you do as unwelcome. Out the window with the trust... so yeah, talk it over first >.<

I agree brandye. There is no "wrong turn" on this subject. Anyone that has been victim of rape or molestation as a young woman or child wouldn't find this act welcoming nor be aroused by it. As always we talk about communication. So if you dont know a female's sexual past as far as traumas go you maybe bringing back repressed memories of midnight predators coming in her room or being violently violated sexual. It may seem like I'm being dramatic but I'm one of those woman and that is something I can never forgive my son's father for cuz he knew my sexual traumas in my past and didn't care still. So think about what you do b4 you do it to her.

My wife pretends to "pass out" for fun. She enjoys it. I would never assume that that means I could do it if she actually passed out. If she is not able to say yes, then the answer is no.

[QUOTE=Brandye;248330]Note to Ob: given your first post, you have more serious stuff to talk about.[/QUOTE]

Watch yourself! Leave that in the other thread...

Anyway Sex while sleeping is bad unless it's given permission from your partner, period!

[QUOTE=Infamous Ob;248353]Watch yourself! Leave that in the other thread...

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MMMMMMMMM... now me being a suspicious sort and being that it is Friday (yay)
I am rather surprised at this thread and the other thread mentioned
by Brandye.. In this one you say this... "I've always wanted to try this w/my Wife. I've talked to her about it a few times, but we still haven't agreed or discussed it further lately. I'll be sure to ask her" (last sentence has me curious)

In the other you are talking Divorce... And she won't communicate and calls you dumb.....

Both posts made on the same day???

And what is meant by "Watch yourself!"

I don't know about law everywhere, but I can tell you that the law where I live calls it rape if there's ANY alcohol involved AT ALL. Alcohol consumption lends the possibility that the capacity to consent is diminished, so legally, it's rape.

I only bring that up because if tipsy = rape, I would imagine asleep would as well.

In an attempt to take a bit lighter note, there's something I don't get. Why the hell would you want foreplay/sex with the proverbial 'dead fish' anyway? How is that any fun? Getting the feedback and participation-in-kind is part of the enjoyment.

Ob, you posted it and some of us do notice consistency among threads. Sometimes the best advice is cross-thread.

Threats? I have been banned, on occasion, for calling a jerk a jerk. I think I'll risk it again.

Int, in most places where that's true, the wording is something along the lines of "under the influence of..." or "while intoxicated."

How is it any different when I wake up to my wife is grinding my erection in the middle of the night as we fell asleep spooning?

[QUOTE=jasonut;248419]How is it any different when I wake up to my wife is grinding my erection in the middle of the night as we fell asleep spooning?[/QUOTE]

here is the thing, the emotions of women and men are different, also just because you might like something doesn't mean she will. and vice verse. but like buck naked said earlier "if she is not able to say yes then the answer is no" also the dynamics of sex are different with a guy then they are with a girl because you aren't letting anyone inside you, from the information given by your post

[QUOTE=weasel;248423]here is the thing, the emotions of women and men are different, also just because you might like something doesn't mean she will. and vice verse. but like buck naked said earlier "if she is not able to say yes then the answer is no" also the dynamics of sex are different with a guy then they are with a girl because you aren't letting anyone inside you, from the information given by your post[/QUOTE]

Sorry I totally disagree. Rape is rape period. Guy or girl doesn't matter. Just because statistically more women are raped than men, and just because women have more points of entry doesn't mean a guy cant get raped.

[QUOTE=jasonut;248419]How is it any different when I wake up to my wife is grinding my erection in the middle of the night as we fell asleep spooning?[/QUOTE]
Of course its different! Did she insert ur penis in her without u knowing it like how some guys will insert their penis without us knowing it? You cant compare "dry humping or grinding" to that cuz there wasnt any penatration. If you dont understand or see the difference btw the 2 then no offense but there is something wrong with the way you think.

Besides the fact that this is greatly unfair to the other partner, it can be considered rape.

Done consensually, it's an awesome thing to wake up to, and helps put meaning behind dreams! "Oh! THAT's why I was having a naughty dream about a lesbian threesum with a French maid working with a nurse to take care of a schoolgirl in the hospital shower room..." :P

[QUOTE=Rouge;248480]Done consensually, it's an awesome thing to wake up to, and helps put meaning behind dreams! "Oh! THAT's why I was having a naughty dream about a lesbian threesum with a French maid working with a nurse to take care of a schoolgirl in the hospital shower room..." :P[/QUOTE]
Lmao!! someone has interesting fantasies!

I do occasionally try ;)

I'm his "little closet lesbian"

You are a lil Rouge;)

Hahaha so it would seem!

[QUOTE=Rouge;248480]Done consensually, it's an awesome thing to wake up to, and helps put meaning behind dreams! "Oh! THAT's why I was having a naughty dream about a lesbian threesum with a French maid working with a nurse to take care of a schoolgirl in the hospital shower room..." :P[/QUOTE]

wow every guy in the known universe just heard you type that lol

Sorry, I just dream of a pile of delicious and willng teddybears on a nice big bed and they're all waiting for me to pounce upon them!!

Oh Wait!
Yeah, that was last week at the party.

Nevernind then.

This is just wrong on so many levels. There are things you SHOULD NEVER DO. What you are doing is close to rape or is considered rape. She has no idea what you are doing to her. She does not have the option of saying yes or no. I have no respect for disgusting people such as yourself.:mad:

EEK IS RAPING TEDDY BEARS!!!!!!

Frank have you read the thread in its entirety? That point is abundantly clear.

HEY!!

The teddybears are willing!

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