So I have had sex with this girl.. for about a year.. (she took my virginity) and thank god shes a nice girl.. she let me have my pubes for a while.. till she convinced me to shave it.. but anyways..
i tend to sweat WAYYYY too much when i have sex no matter what position im in.. im literally dripping and drenched.. and leave like lakes..
but like i said shes a nice girl and still lets me go on and on..
but its a real problem.. i am a bit overweight and out of shape yes.. ive been trying to take care of it but i have back injuries so its a pain, and even though i do lots of cardio, it doesn't seem to help at all.. i sweat alot more during sex then working out but then again intensity is up there with sex.... okay maybe not football and wrestling.. but i don't play football anymore as i'm in college.. anything i can do?
P.S.. i even seem to sweat snuggling :/
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Ducy, I didn't say deoderant, I specificaly said "antiperspirant, clinical strenght if he can find it". This is an initial treatment of hyperhydrosis recomended by American Dr's to members of the Armed Forces and there are other treatments as well that involve Botox injections and neurectomies if the problem is severe. I've seen very healthy and fit soldiers succumb to dehydration due to excessive sweating that required hospitalization and hours/days of IV hydration to stabilize fluids and electrolites. It's a condition not widely known but to those that suffer from this, it not only impacts their health but also affects them socially as well.
sweet its a friendly crowd.. good thing i joined this forum after all :)
Ducy - I know about weight loss, i've been a fighter and athlete all my life but i broke my back in a car accident, and got multiple injuries again and again after.. so at the moment it is very hard to work out properly... and got hit pretty hard economywise, so eating healthy is hard too.. although im trying slowly.. (right now i seem to be losing muscle and gaining fat :|)
EEK - she doesn't want to play slow slow >< or when i do go slow its more of a ram :P
great tips btw i def should keep a towel handy.. as after i cum i tend to run around to the restroom and grab a towel.. hmmm the ice cube idea is pretty cool too actually.. and it can add some fun.. we both love cold kissing/oral surprises :D
and thanks for the laugh haha.. actually my house right now is pretty small.. as im pretty poor.. shes.. wealthy.. but theres always ppl over at her house
so she calls mine the lavish box or the hut or something.. its cute though :P
i tried AC, and a fan but i still sweat lakes and oceans :/
although AC does help quite a bit.. we were at vegas and man hotel ac does rock..
RR - I know.. i usually don't notice until im dripping though (probably cause i'm tired) :/
she says "i don't mind while were sexing" but after its like an ugh...
and i just feel bad you know because she is sometimes ocd about hygiene (sometimes refuses to have sex if she isn't shaved cause she gets embarrassed and refuses to sex me if i don't shave sometimes cause its ugly)
Oh pheromones.. only if I could prove them *eats more celery*
women actually have higher body temps, due to a higher healthy body fat since your the ones who carry the babies :|
if my body wasn't so screwed up.. i have a feeling id sweat even more.. i used to be the guy who'd wear shorts rain or shine.. and she used to love to cling to me cause my warm body.. but now i think shes warmer than me :/ and she she is like you as well, gets hot quick, esp when shes sleeping or snuggling.. but she doesn't drip or anything.. shes just hot hot
oh im not too much of a fan of the body sliding and the sweating and all that stuff less its a rainy day and loveplay in a car and things get steamin :P and sometimes.. my wet tummy gets in the way.. and makes the weirdest most embarrassing noises ever :|
and actually tonight, it wasn't too bad.. probably cause it was night though im sure.. well thanks for the info guys keep it coming :)
Some people just sweat more than others. I would agree with EEK's suggestions, particularly making sure the room is well ventilated. Though you may want to watch out for drafts on your wet skin. Sneezing on your partner may excel sweating ;) Also; worrying about sweating may increase your sweating. So uhhm -I know this sounds lame- don't sweat it :)
You may want to realize that fresh sweat doesn't stink and isn't unhygienic. And that people that sweat well have less chance of becoming overheated. So it's usually a good thing your body does it. For the very sensitive nose there may be a very light smell to it, but that's just "you". Everyone has an individual smell. It helps boosting your natural systems of bonding and sweat contains pheromones that encourage desire :) Deodorants are lovely and some really have a tempting smell. But nothing beats your own uniqueness, when it comes to something as primal as having sex.
Personally; I sometimes instantly start sweating, even when snuggling or from light touch. This could be different for women, as in; "when she sweats, it's hot". My lover would sweat buckets above 25 degrees C in summer. It made our bodies slide over eachother. And I would reflex with a slight twitch every time a drip came down unexpectedly on my face. So it actually added to the love-play :rolleyes:
Sex is hard work but there are few things you can try to help lessen the sweating.
1. slow down - think slow sensual instead of whammo fast fast
2. allow room for air space - from behind or with you standing by the side of the bed or female superior
3. increase air flow - ceiling fan, open window, buddy standing there with palm fronds? (you have to laugh, hun!)
4. towels - LOTS of towels
5. ice cubes wrapped in bandanna then tied so ice rests on the back of your neck - tell her its kink (does work btw)
I have been on the receiving end of masculine sweat driping down and it isn't all that nice but depending upon the mood it can add a little something to the apparent torridness of the occasion.
Just think of "rode hard and put up wet" and have your lady rub her stud down afterwards - could be fun!
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;275236]Yes, it is a friendly crowd - except for me. Because if someone does something stupid - I'm going to say so - and I most likely will not 'be nice' about it. I'm the "brick upside your head counselor".
Welcome to sexinfo101.[/QUOTE]
oooo a fiesty and direct kitty! i like you already :D
Please don't be insulting. "Feisty" - Hah!
You're the guy who can't say "condoms or no sex from me" because you are without courage.
Don't put deodorant all over your body.
Cardio, no matter how much you do, won't make you magically lose weight. Its the diet...calories in must be less than calories out. And what exactly is you cardio? I see hundreds of people who walk on the treadmill or elliptical, barely breaking a sweat, and they get off those machines acting as if they just won the boston marathon.
Sweating happens. I am in pretty good shape, do a lot of high intensity lifting. I will sweat during sex, and even worse after sex.
perhaps i will talk to a dr.. one day when i can afford medical insurance.. yeah men perspire.. but even when snuggling for 2 mins.. come on!
its mostly from the chest and head.. and stomach.. not really the groin.. only sometimes, but is it safe? i thought deodorant was only meant for arms
There is a saying that goes:
* Horses sweat
* Men perspire
* Women glow
The last two conditions are common every day occurrences when making love. Don't sweat it. Everybody does it.
If you only notice excessive sweating during exhurtion, then it's probubly just your state of physical fitness and that will improve as get in better shape. However, if you experience excessive perspiration during periods of rest that can't be attributed to tempurature, you may have a condition called hyperhydrosis which for most is an embarrasing nuisance but for a few, can be exessive enough to cause mild to moderate dehydration. One thing you can try is using antiperspirant, clinical strength if you can find it, between the legs and groin area of the trunk as soon as you get out of the shower. It may take several days to notice any differance or it may make no differance at all. If that doesn't help you, maybe you need to speak to a Dr about it since there are treatments availible for hyperhydrosis.
i tried :|