ok i have a friend thats know me for bout 5 years shes very pretty but. we were hangn out couple days ago and she asked me if i want to be her fuck buddy. i thought she was joking we've joke bout that kinda stuff alot but she was serious. & im a virgin and i knooowwww shes not. i told her id think bout it.were both single but i dont know if i should, because we are great friends and i wouldn't wanna risk that. but on the other hand it'd be good for me to get good at sex. i dont know if i should. think i should?
Mon, 12/20/2010 - 05:12
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friend with benefits?
Ask yourself some questions:
What am I looking to get out of this?
What's my opinion of no-strings sex? Can I do it no-strings, or am I going to need a committed relationship?
If we use protection (which you better every single solitary time until you're ready to be a father), does it really matter to me how many partners she's had other than me? Why or why not?
Do I understand that I might not be the only one she has this arrangement with, and am I okay with that?
Do I understand where her head is on all these same questions?
no she doesnt have any sexual intrest in anyone except me and we hangout like 7hours a day everyday. so im always with her but her parents love me and trust me alot im the only guy allowed over there when shes there alone. lol idk
OK that's one question down. Answer the rest for yourself. And we don't necessarily need to know those answers, but if YOU don't, you're not ready to do it.