I found this on my travels on the Web. Good bad or ugly advice? Do tell ladies (those of you who know of course!). Thanks!
"Of all the ways to please a woman this is probably the easiest and the best way to get to the big G spot
Step 1
The first step is to massage her mound with palm. Tell her to gently ride your palms to start with.
Step 2
Apply some lubricant to your fingertip and trace the outer of her vagina to know how wet she is. Also lubricant will help her glide over your fingers smoothly. Gently touch her clitoris and her opening. Start very slow at first and then gradually move up and down or side movements.
Step 3
Soon she will become excited and then you can put a finger into her vagina but very gently. Insert your finger as far as it can go, may be upto secong or knucke. If you know her G spot, rub it with a circular motion that is smooth and regular. Now start with the finger intercourse moving your finger in and out of her vagina. At the same time use the thumb of the same hand to massage her clitoris. You should have a rhythm and coordination that is perfect.
Step 4
When she really gets to a high point, her breathing will change and vagina muscles will flex against your hand movements. To help build her orgasm, it is advisable to push your fingers against her thrusts. Continue stimulating her with the regular rhythm. Rhythm is important because it gives her the orgasm and stopping it might result in her losing the sensation and orgasm altogether. So even if she starts to moan or groan and scream don’t stop the rhythmic stimulation.
Useful Tips:
• Your nails should not be sharp or have rough edges, otherwise you might hurt her.
• With condoms purchase some lube that is water based. It will be handy to you if you expect an intercourse. In case you do not have the lube, your saliva or her juice will be useful. But never finger her dry.
• Before you insert your fingers into her vagina ask her, because many girls don’t like that idea. Or if you don’t want to ask, just insert a little of your fingers into her and her body language will tell you about her comfort level.
• Rest the palm of your hand on her mon. this will be less stressful to you and the movement you will get through this will be similar to when she herself does the fingering. Be sure not to move the palm, because the movement might irritate her because of the hair on her mons."
And I do not think it is the women's fault. If they do not know because our sex ed is so poor and they do not get with a 'skilled practictioner' then they will never have the experience.
Which is a damn shame!
G-Spot and fornice orgasms are the BEST!!!
WSO,
There are gazillions of sites advocating G-Spot techniques and squirting. It is like a religion for some and the sites are more alike than different - some helpful information and some crap making young men think they can read their way to success. The fact remains that successful discovery and manipulation of the G-Spot is uncommon (and, fortunately, uncommonly good when we get there!) and real work to discover. It my g/f and me several hours over not a few sessions and we are both quite familiar, professionally, with the appropriate parts.
My guess is about ten percent of us actually get there.
The author of this piece is confusing her G-Spot with her Anterior Fornix. The G-Spot is just inside the vagina while the anterior fonix is much further back. Both are in the roof of the vagna.
The author is also being far too rough when he/she says the word "thrust".
You always CARESS, you never thrust, push or do anyhing aggressive.
Please note that some women would much rather you do one 'hotspot' at a time. If you're not perfectly coordinated, trying to rub her clitoris and her G-Spot at the same time will result in confusion and the resuls will not be good. Resting your hand on her mons is immaterial and therefore strictly optional.
Does G-Spot massage feel good?
OH YES!!!
But only if you do it right which you will know immeditely because the effect upon the lady is DRAMATIC!
I'm not a skilled practitioner (yet), but I do enjoy gathering information for the time when it will be put to use. Never know when I'll need the well validated information (thanks for the validations Brandeye and EEK) that I've gotten here.
My hat's off to you fine ladies! Treasures both.
Wasn't there a long thread on this recently titled something about squirting? (within the past few months) I believe I wrote a fairly detailed description of some methods I've found success with. I've actually had a much easier time stimulating the anterior fornix with my fingers than the g-spot and an easier time with the g-spot using my penis by adjusting our hips to the correct angles. It helps greatly to have a very rigid penis for that, but at the same time it takes a lot more practice or you'll just be poking her uncomfortably.
With LOTS of foreplay first, searching for it is more pleasurable and there's no mistaking finding it because she'll usually stop breathing/gasp and curl her body up off the bed with eyes rolling.
found it
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing-her/27306-g-spot-technique-orga...
Yes, funin - there is no mistaking when he's "gotten it right" - she becomes totally "unbridled".
Then she wants sex ALL of the time! So be careful what you wish for!
That fine with me! I'm also not looking forward to aging down there!