Wait what?

Okay circumcision is irrelevant to her pleasure...some believe that the extra skin allows less friction on the inside of the vagina since it your penis would slide inside the foresking (this isnt proben and this doesnt account for using a condom)

Premature ejaculation is basically finishing in a few strokes or the first few minutes...

[QUOTE=Reason;203431]ok i have not been circumsized and i was just wondering would it b pleasureable for my partner or does it matter?

[COLOR="Navy">Your partner's pleasure is generally derived by:
a) how well you use and know how to use what Mother Nature gave you
b) a sense of fullness she feels by having her vagina filled by a penis, finger(s), dildo
+ The only nerves associated with the vagina are in and around the entrance, not inside. As Ducy states, having a foreskin or not, is immaterial to the woman's pleasure--only yours.

As for your pleasure, the glans of an uncircumcised males is much more sensitive than it is in those of us who have been cut. This is because exposure to the elements and clothing desensitize the nerves over time. So as pleasurable as it is for us, you should be almost on par with what women enjoy, although not quite.[/COLOR]

Also i,ve heard that if u are premature that you have trouble lasting long just a few things i wanted to get cleared up thanks
[COLOR="Navy">PE {Premature Ejaculation) is a condition that plagues many teens and young men up to their mid twenties. It is generally defined as experiencing a climax within the first minute or so and/or upon initial entry, return stroke or the next few strokes. If you simply climax before you want or intend to after that then it is really a matter of an untimely event. Either way, there are two fixes. Read the article on this listed in the Index.[/COLOR][/QUOTE]

I hope this is of help. Happy New Year.

Being born premature has no affect on your stamina...

When people say I was premature, it means that they came before they wanted too (prematurely)....there is no relevance between premature birth and ejaculation, save the fact that they are both early ;)

[quote=Reason;203439]i was born premature so does that effect me lasting long during sex because thats what i was told[/quote]If it did only to the fact you are developing physically/mentally behind your peers by say a month???? You tossed out a "premature blanket statement" If you said you were one of triplets and born at 5 months into the preg...? Perhaps---I highly doubt it since many kids are born for various, non-like threatening, reasons prematurely.

> i was born premature so does that effect me lasting long during sex because thats what i was told

Proof perfect that you should not always believe what you read, hear or what you've been told.

Please read the article on Premature Ejaculation listed in the Index and read it. There is also much discussion on the Board about this.

Essentially, PE stems from the fact that a person is not in touch with his feelings. In other words, he has not learned to associate those various and changing sensations that occur as he climbs his arousal curve and nears his approaching orgasm. What happens is that the orgasm sneaks up on him, is triggered, all before he recognizes what is happening. The result is he is surprised and perplexed and often disgusted that he cannot control what is happening. There are two easy fixes that each of us should learn. It is simply a matter of mind over matter, so to speak.

Another aspect to the problem is that we become so caught up in the experience and have not learned to keep a portion of our conscious brain in tune with these sensations so that we can pause, stop, and/or pull out until the sense of urgency subsides. Each of us has to train ourselves to both enjoy the rise to climax while keeping a watchful (mind's) eye to our progress in order to control the timing.

Lastly, is the fact that all of us become much more turned on and aroused when we are in the company of a lover than we become when home alone. This just exacerbates the problem. Please read the article and then put the information into practice.

[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;203440]So as pleasurable as it is for us, you should be almost on par with what women enjoy, although not quite.[/QUOTE]

Sorry Doc, but this bit went over my head.. what exactly did you mean by that?

[QUOTE=Beckeh;203470]Sorry Doc, but this bit went over my head.. what exactly did you mean by that?[/QUOTE]

This is an excellent question, thanks for asking for clarification.

As sensitive as the nerves are in the Glans of a circumcised male, and as pleasurable as being touched is, we are nowhere near as sensitive and responsive as those males who are natural. Why?

Because the nerves in the Glans of a circumcised individual become desensitized over years of exposure the the elements and the constant rubbing against under ware while those of the "natural man" are sheltered and protected for much of his young life thus remaining very very sensitive. How sensitive, a good guestimation would be almost as sensitive as a clitoris. It won't be as sensitive because the clitoris is much smaller and the nerves endings are much much closer together and this intensifies the experience for women.

Add to the intensity natural guys experience is the contribution of the foreskin. This part of the penis also has a great many nerve endings and involving them will augment what is going on with the glans when it is extended.

Depending upon how a guy is "wired" and how easily his foreskin retracts and how often it has, exposing the glans, many guys can not tolerate having their glans touched or rubbed much if at all. Others can stand to have the glans caressed manually or orally or are learning how to. If the glans cannot be caressed directly, then like when the clitoris becomes too sensitive to touch, use the indirect approach--leave the foreskin forward and stimulate the glans thru it.

Like doc said...its the glans (i.e. the head of the penis) that is sensitive...the foresking isnt so sensitive...in fact it would be desensitized over the years (since it rubs against underwear and such while protecting the penis)

The only way to make your glans less sensitive is to masturbate using lube and pretty much rubbing nothing but the tip of your penis...or have a hellavu lotta sex.

[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;203521]This is an excellent question, thanks for asking for clarification.

As sensitive as the nerves are in the Glans of a circumcised male, and as pleasurable as being touched is, we are nowhere near as sensitive and responsive as those males who are natural. Why?

Because the nerves in the Glans of a circumcised individual become desensitized over years of exposure the the elements and the constant rubbing against under ware while those of the "natural man" are sheltered and protected for much of his young life thus remaining very very sensitive. How sensitive, a good guestimation would be almost as sensitive as a clitoris. It won't be as sensitive because the clitoris is much smaller and the nerves endings are much much closer together and this intensifies the experience for women.

Add to the intensity natural guys experience is the contribution of the foreskin. This part of the penis also has a great many nerve endings and involving them will augment what is going on with the glans when it is extended.

Depending upon how a guy is "wired" and how easily his foreskin retracts and how often it has, exposing the glans, many guys can not tolerate having their glans touched or rubbed much if at all. Others can stand to have the glans caressed manually or orally or are learning how to. If the glans cannot be caressed directly, then like when the clitoris becomes too sensitive to touch, use the indirect approach--leave the foreskin forward and stimulate the glans thru it.[/QUOTE]

Thanks for the clarification =]

Hey folks, I registered after seeing this thread purely by chance it relates to my current thinking lately.

I'm un-cut and very sensitive. The sensation whether during masturbation or sex is very sensual and makes it hard not to orgasm quickly. I put this down to the sensation my penis gets while rubbing within the foreskin, i.e. the foreskin is rolled over the head of my penis repetitively during sex or masturbation. With lots of control during sex I can last long enough but it's a challenge.

Now my concern is, my foreskin does roll back behind the head of my penis but doesn't stay there hence the movement during sex and heightened stimulation. I'd like to firstly pose the question "how many of you guys have a foreskin that doesn't stay retracted?"

It's quite frustrating as on occasions when it does stay back, my head doesn't receive as much friction and sensitivity and I can last ages in bed. I'm 99% sure that the fact my foreskin doesn't stay retracted during sex is a major contributor to how long I last during sex and it being a negative factor.

I'm sure this isn't 100% normal and would like to know if and who else has a similar condition. I've been contemplating visiting a sex health clinic to see what can be done, if anything. Perhaps a snip to loosen the foreskin or even go the whole way and get circumcised.

I'm positive if I was circumcised I wouldn't have anywhere near the trouble lasting longer but with circumcision, it's not exactly something you can "roll back" if you change your mind...

Thoughts welcome

When you say retracted do you mean rolled or pulled back, with the glans exposed??

That's an interesting idea that the forskin effects a non-circumsized male's sensation. Me being one of them; I never gave it much thought. I am always wearing a condom which tends to keep my forskin retracted, as I pull it back before I put the condom on, and have therefore never really noticed a change in sensation. Experimentation time!!

Yeah retracted/rolled back. I do the same when putting a condom on, I roll the foreskin back to expose the head of my penis, slip the condom on and then it kinda just rolls itself back over the head again. The condom doesn't seem to have a problem with it, it just accommodates lol...

But say when I've worn I dunno, a particularly tight condom or my foreskin hasn't rolled back over the head I don't get anywhere near the heightened sensitivity and it's great for sex...

Well I dont see what the problem is lol

Problem is foreskin not staying pulled back behind the head during sex