Hi
I have a problem with my foreskin.
I find it too tight to retract, and when i do try it causes pain.
I have tried using lube when pulling it back and it has gone back then, but then i find it has trouble going back over the head of my penis.
Should i see a doctor about this, or should i try and stretch it?
you should give it some more effort trying to stretch it. for many people it starts off tight and then loosens up with some stretching. goodluck
There have been many threads on this. A little snip by the doctor will fix you right up. Not circumcision, just a little snip. Most doctors have done this many times.
I'm in the EXACT situation as you man, that's why i decided to get online this late, lol...it was bugging me.
Just a snip??? Ahhhh, that makes me cringe every time I think about it...ahh, there it goes again..ouch...i HATE the idea of cutting anything down there in any way. You're a girl, don't you think that having the skin cut may freak out some girls? Also, will it loosen up as we age without cutting anything?
:) well, i had this problem too for a LONG while n i mean about a year-2 years!! basically, i couldnt pull back my foreskin past the helmet cus it felt like it was being stretched too far, i can suggest a few tips which started too work for me:
1. pull your foreskin back BEFORE you get an errection, this means as the penis grows it will start to stretch the foreskin.
2. JUST GO FOR IT, grit your teeth and pull it down, if you cant pull it the whole way dont worry, try and move it down a tiny bit further at a time so it will gradually stretch!
these were working for me and it was going well but i noticed very little difference.
BUT, i had sex with my girlfreind a few days ago for the first time who was a virgin, because the vagina was "tight" it gently pulled the foreskin back as you slide it in. then as you start moving in and out, it is pulled against the head over and over again, stretching it until it goes over the head. although it is a little bit painfull, the sex was enjoyable, i can now pull my foreskin back without really fussing and sex is improved a lot!:) :D :D
And read the dozens of threads on this topic.
Yes, I am female but have performed the procedure a few times. The result is not noticeable to a partner without very close inspection and then she may not know from normal.
It will generally not "improve" with age - at least not in a reasonable time. Live with it or get it nicked.
Out of curiosity what is the exact procedure? Any stitches involved or anything because it really makes me curious.
Just a nick with a scalpel and probably no stitches. the keep it clean.
[QUOTE=Brandye]Just a nick with a scalpel and probably no stitches. the keep it clean.[/QUOTE]
That sounds incredibly painful... I cringe just thinking about it.
Every day I'm thankful because I have nice loose foreskin.
Scalpel? Sounds painful. If I wasn't already cut I probably wouldn't get that done... Unless they used a very strong anesthetic.
Yea but I think I'd rather have a DR proffesionally "nick" something.. then try to have sex or something and it rip!!!
well the scalpel is a pretty precise cutting tool, its better than using a scisors or a butterknife lol... but good question... i would think anaesthetic would be used?
If not I'de suggest drinking a lot of vodka before hand.
altho it maybe painful to stretch at first , after a while it'll slide back with no problem at all , just pull back before getting an erection whether it be before sex or masturbating and you'll be fine
I have this problem too, it doesnt bother me too much but it does go over the head when having sex with my girlfreind.
and for those wondering what the doc snips, i think its the banjo string from ur foreskin to ur bell end lol
[QUOTE=Brandye;147909]Just a nick with a scalpel and probably no stitches. the keep it clean.[/QUOTE]
That sounds incredibly painful *shudders* I don't even want to think about it. Thank god for a loose foreskin.
There is no such thing as just a nick on the foreskin/penis.