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As a teen, many years ago, I usually brought my male partner off during foreplay - slowed him down, got what I needed, made for a more relaxed session and there was always plenty more where that came from.

This technique had been suggested to me by an aunt.

There's nothing wrong with you coming during foreplay just so long as you're confidant that you're going to be able to perform again for her. For me I like to cuddle after I've had a shag and if a guy is in the process of getting an obvious hard on its hard to ignore, So if I'm with a guy that I know is going to want to go a couple of times I'll using try and bring him off during foreplay. It's something that guys are really appreciative off, and they usually make a big effort during the penetrative sex like its more for my benefit.

But make sure its okay with your gf and that she's expecting it. It'll probably serve to extend the foreplay as well, just don't put the onus on her to get you hard again. As for her, try asking her to masturbate herself before you go into her it might help her along a little.

Like you said everyones a bit different but for me and my hubby what we like to do in foreplay is obvios making out, but we each like to recieve plenty of oral and theres allot of dry humping while we make out plus he loves to finger me and we usualy go at all this for 30-45 min to sometimes and hour before we actually have sex. As for your girlfriend and her orgasm, what works for me is during foreplay my man fingers me until I come and then when we have sex for some reason its easier for me to relax and have a great orgasm. And if you're are having trouble with coming to fast when you've had allot of foreplay, if you want this works for my hubby, stop for a second, (and if neccesary, pull out) and think of something non-sexual.

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[QUOTE=rockURsocks;232007]As my girlfriend and I get into the moment, I feel as if we jump into things very quickly. Im sure this effects the way our lovemaking plays out (she has difficulty orgasming) and I think foreplay would decrease the time it takes for her to orgasm.

[COLOR="blue">There is nothing wrong with a proverbial "Quickie"; however, women especially, and men, benefit by making love for an extended period of time. Making out and fooling around for no less than half an hour or more if time permits helps get women who are slower to become aroused, turned on and reved up. So, while guys are often ready at the mere thought of having sex, women require a great deal of emotional input as well as physical caressing and kissing.

For a woman to orgasm during intercourse, her vulva must be in constant contact with the man's body. Few positions provide the contact and thus the friction required. If this is what is happening with the two of you, know that what a loving, caring, compassionate, skilled, lover does is to reach around and finger her while stroking/thrusting.

FOREPLAY- A good ol' fashioned lovemaking session includes but is not limited to Foreplay. There is also "Necking", "Petting", and, "Heavy Petting", that come beforehand. This is explained in one or more of the articles listed. Foreplay mainly consists of caressing (b/j and/or h/j) the erogenous zones like the breasts and genitals and comes after all the other preparations that should have gone on earlier. Enacted together, all this fooling around should peak the excitement, anticipation, and, sexual tension, for both of you, preparing you for an orgasm by whatever means.[/COLOR]

Neither of us are very experienced, we were each-others' first time, so we are kinda blind when it comes to the subject of foreplay.

[COLOR="blue">This is OK, and the "why" behind the purpose of this site. It is also why sex manuals like "The Joy of Sex" were written and why some of us have written the many articles mentioned in the Index. We hope to make the journey easier for those just starting out than it may have been for us.

There is a tendency nowadays to lump all the kissing and caressing a couple does into the single term "Foreplay"; however, as I mentioned, above, there are several other stages. Each one has different levels of intimacy and a time line. [/COLOR]

From our limited experience, we have found that foreplay usually results in me finishing faster because I become more excited. I know this probably sounds really stupid but I really don't fully understand what foreplay includes (besides the painfully obvious like kissing etc.) or how long it should take.
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I understand that it is probably different for everyone but I would appreciate anything your comfortable sharing. Thanks :)

[COLOR="blue">This takes us back to the beginning when I said we are all members of the human race; thus we all have questions, concerns, and problems, in common.[/COLOR]

(BTW: if you have ideas about solving the orgasm problem feel free to respond to it, my gf would be INDESCRIBABLY grateful :D )[/QUOTE]

You will probably find the answer in one of the articles. There are several that discuss the female orgasm from different aspects. If not, then please give us the specifics of her orgasm problem so we know; first, what you are doing when the problem is encountered; second, how you are attempting to pleasure her; etc. Right now, you have just stated a problem exists yet to find a solution, we need to understand more about what is going on.

After the two of you do your homework, please feel free to continue the discussion. I hope this is of help.

i love forplays n like em to b as long as pausible .
i feel the betta the foreplay the betta is the sex n pleasure :)