TALK with you WIFE about this. Because if you get her permission, which would just as much for her benefit (since she finds this creepy) as for yours, then you can set-up a regularly scheduled twice-a-month schedule with a 'provider'. Think of it as 'therapy'. Since she has done this for you before, she should know what's involved (no actual intercourse) and can make an informed decision.

The only question then becomes, does she trust you and trust in the strength of your marriage?

You've experienced it yourself. Why would it be odd to you that the OP's wife wouldn't do it to completion when you had a woman who would stop before finishing you on oral?

And I can tell you why she feels odd. She wants to please him but isn't used to this "out of the norm" idea. Foot fetish isn't considered a "regular" fetish when you think about basic instincts. Sex? You reproduce its natural for a man to want to do it. Its not "natural" for a man to want to have sex with a womans feet

Hmm, I wonder what makes her feel "weird" about doing that for you? Is it wearing the stockings, or the positioning, or...? It seems odd she would indulge you enough to try it and then not let you finish. Then again, some people just have their hangups.

I had a similar situation with a more mundane act. I had a girlfriend who wouldn't perform oral sex. The most she would do was tease slightly with her mouth until the moment there was any kind of precum. I became fixated on that act, possibly just because she wouldn't do it for me. So it's understandable you're interested in seeking a "provider."

The plan to do it "one time" doesn't seem feasible. Once you open the floodgates of seeking someone else you may find it hard to restrict to just one time. I could be wrong...

It is between your conscience and you. Could you do this one time and get it out of your system and then never again use the services of a provider? If you believe you could be satisfied with just once and then get it out of your system you might consider convincing your wife that if she will finish the job just once then you'll never mention it again. Then you would have to keep your word. A foot job is not that weird-at least in my opinion.

Lol compared to what has been posted, the only thing that would be a "shocker" would be someone with a fetish for fecal matter.

I personally am arouse when I think of getting a footjob. But then again I'm aroused by seeing a girl in sweatpants and a sweatshirt lol.

Dlb is right. Its between you and yourself. Id say just try to convey the level of arousal you get from her giving you an fj. Usually women enjoy pleasing there man (as long as its not painful for them) and are aroused and pleasing them. If she saw how much you really enjoyed it, or understood how much it turned you on then perhaps she would learn to love it. Personally I have found most girls hate their feet but I'm pro and giving foot massages and I will give them compliments and such which in turns makes them more comfortable. And no its not a foot fetish, I just enjoy all parts of a womans body.