K, there's this friend of mine from a few years ago. She often insists we should date, I've respectfully made it clear that I refuse to. The other day we were drinking and she started flashing me and tempting me to have sex w/ her. Nothing happened because I didn't wanna lead her on even though I've made it clear I only wanna be friends. However I keep thinking about that night. I honestly don't wanna have sex sex w/ her I'd rather do some oral and/ or dry hump you know.. Just fool around. How do I get there w/ out going all the way? And have her not thinking it was more than lust.