Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy participating. Here is some reading material for the for the two of you and particularly her in order to begin helping your love life and her personal satisfaction. In addition to the links, below, I recommend that the two of you read the other articles listed in the Index.
[QUOTE=ms51080;215641]Hi, I have been having sex with a girl for about a month now. She is 23 and very new to sex, I am 28 and also not very experienced.
She has told me she's never had an orgasm. Never from masturbating, which she admits she's tried but kind of gave up on because it wasn't working for her.
[COLOR="DarkSlateBlue">It may seem by all the links that there is a lot of reading; however, the information is fairly succinct, and straight to the point. She, and other women reading this thread who are in the same situation will find the articles very beneficial (which is why they were written and presented on this forum.[/COLOR] :cool: )
We've probably had sex 10-15 times and she tells me she has not had an orgasm yet, but has felt like she is coming close a few times. The odd thing is, I've noticed pretty much every time we have sex lately, usually when I pull out of her (not after cumming, but just changing positions), this fluid will pour out of her and down my leg. Sometimes this will happen a couple times while having sex. I have not stopped to really investigate it, but I think it's sexy as hell and wondered what is was.
[COLOR="DarkSlateBlue">Probably her vaginal mucous and lubrication that is secreted once a person is aroused.
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It happened last night... not down my leg, but onto the hardwood floor when I pulled out. And again this morning while she was on top of me. I looked afterwards and there was a fair amount on the pillow that was under us. It was soaked into the pillow, so I could not really describe what it looked like. Looked and smelled normal... like water or something.
Any ideas what this is? Is she cumming but not realizing it?
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There is no mistaking a sexual climax or orgasm. Once a person experiences the first, the rest are self explanatory. If there is a question, then the answer is probably "no", she has not had an orgasm as yet.[/COLOR]
I am not sure if it ONLY happens when I pull out... seems like it's happened while having sex as well, but I am not quite sure.
It does indeed sound like her natural lubricant. Although I doubt she has come without realizing it - you both probably would have known. You are clearly doing something right though so try reading the stickies and experimenting a little more, finding out what works for your situation and what doesn't, what you are both comfortable with, etc.
Communication is the key to good sex. Don't be afraid to tell her what you like or try new things, and try and get her to be the same.
It's probably her natural lubricant.
Have a look when she's aroused, but you haven't penetrated her (with your penis) she'd have it then too.
Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy participating. Here is some reading material for the for the two of you and particularly her in order to begin helping your love life and her personal satisfaction. In addition to the links, below, I recommend that the two of you read the other articles listed in the Index.
[QUOTE=ms51080;215641]Hi, I have been having sex with a girl for about a month now. She is 23 and very new to sex, I am 28 and also not very experienced.
Orgasm - Never Too Late
Why Women's Orgasms?
Female Sexual Response
The Anatomy of the Female "O", Answered by Brandye & Dancingdoc2 & Inspired by Godiva
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The following link presents information critical to her success at achieving orgasms:[/COLOR]
For Women Only- Help! Why Can't He Make Me Orgasm?
How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?
The KIVIN Method of performing Cunnilingus, answered by Brandye, EEK, and Dancingdoc2
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This includes an excellent video tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of integrating anal stimulation and oral stimulation, bringing this exercise to a new level![/COLOR]
She has told me she's never had an orgasm. Never from masturbating, which she admits she's tried but kind of gave up on because it wasn't working for her.
[COLOR="DarkSlateBlue">It may seem by all the links that there is a lot of reading; however, the information is fairly succinct, and straight to the point. She, and other women reading this thread who are in the same situation will find the articles very beneficial (which is why they were written and presented on this forum.[/COLOR] :cool: )
We've probably had sex 10-15 times and she tells me she has not had an orgasm yet, but has felt like she is coming close a few times. The odd thing is, I've noticed pretty much every time we have sex lately, usually when I pull out of her (not after cumming, but just changing positions), this fluid will pour out of her and down my leg. Sometimes this will happen a couple times while having sex. I have not stopped to really investigate it, but I think it's sexy as hell and wondered what is was.
[COLOR="DarkSlateBlue">Probably her vaginal mucous and lubrication that is secreted once a person is aroused.
[/COLOR]
It happened last night... not down my leg, but onto the hardwood floor when I pulled out. And again this morning while she was on top of me. I looked afterwards and there was a fair amount on the pillow that was under us. It was soaked into the pillow, so I could not really describe what it looked like. Looked and smelled normal... like water or something.
Any ideas what this is? Is she cumming but not realizing it?
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There is no mistaking a sexual climax or orgasm. Once a person experiences the first, the rest are self explanatory. If there is a question, then the answer is probably "no", she has not had an orgasm as yet.[/COLOR]
I am not sure if it ONLY happens when I pull out... seems like it's happened while having sex as well, but I am not quite sure.
Any insight would be great.[/QUOTE]
It does indeed sound like her natural lubricant. Although I doubt she has come without realizing it - you both probably would have known. You are clearly doing something right though so try reading the stickies and experimenting a little more, finding out what works for your situation and what doesn't, what you are both comfortable with, etc.
Communication is the key to good sex. Don't be afraid to tell her what you like or try new things, and try and get her to be the same.