Hey, can the women out there tell me if sending flowers after the first date is too much? Will it come across as being desperate or thoughtful? The date went really well, which is why I am considering it, and I really wanna see her again. Any help is appreciated.
RDA
I think Tjdude's advice seems pretty good. If you don't know her address, do you know where she works? If so, you could leave her the flower on her desk, when she's not around. That way, she has a nice surprise when she comes back and sits down.
I should add that it depends on how your first date when, also. If there was serious chemistry and sparks were flying and BOTH of you "clicked" then go for the singel flower approach. If not, just try a good old fashioned phone call. But don't beat around the bush. After introductions "Hi, how are you, etc). just tell her you had a great time with her the other night and ask her if she wants to go to __?" Don't wonder. Just ask. The worse thing that can happen is not getting a second date or postponing for a few days.
No one likes desperate people. Desperate = future clingy. Be casual, but firm and friendly. Women like confidence in a man. Remember... its a second date, not marriage.
As often noted, I'm pretty old fashioned and I ALWAYS sent flowers following a date if I was interested in seeing her again. In fact, I think I'll send my wife some roses today. Haven't done that in awhile.
Thanks for the responses...I realized shortly after I posted this though that I don't know her address.....smooth
to send them? yea, that might be a bit much. But bringing and giving her some flowers at the second date might not be a bad idea. good luck
yeah i was always shy about it if someone sent flowers to my house or work etc.. then everyones like oooohh who are those from?? kissy kissy etc.. lol
you get what im saying.
just send one, with a note asking for a second date
and you won't spend a lot on it.
that might work better