Much of flirting is looking at one across the room to catch his eye and if receptive a smile. On a date? Body gestures. To exemplify; moving closer to hear what he is saying, body language which shows I am open to him getting closer, smiling, maintaining eye contact, gently touching his arm while laughing, etc. Yes, rarely batting long eyelashes but more emphasis is on smiling. Sometimes showing some leg (assuming I have a skirt on)...

Much of what sera says...flirting is just catching each others eys...smiling...joking....but for guys not showing much leg. maybe showing a little muscle.

My usual method is to catch and hold his eye, then later on wander over toward him, place my fingers under his chin, just the one hand, and say hello just before I lightly kiss his lips. Then I smile and slowly wander off.

*ahem* seems to work